Psychic Readings & Predictions: Can You Change the Outcome?

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1. I believe that this has allowed me to move on from what my fortune teller told me….I am currently in a relationship with a man I really and truly do love and admire and knowing that there could be changes in the reading she gave me about what the end result for us would be is a real confidence boost in my relationship with him. Although I know that I dont believe what she said and that I could just be in complete denial because I feel with my heart that he is the one for me.

   I have been repeating in my head what she told me over and over and I know that I am over thinking it and that I should live in the now but sometimes it just eats me inside. Im really happy to have read that not only do we still have free will but paths can change day to day as well as them guiding us and informing us of the path we are going down and allowing us to change our minds and giving us the opportunity to right our wrongs.

   Thank you for the boost that I needed after my reading

2. How do i get a read?

3. you can get a free oracle reading on my website or contact my office under “work with Colette”

4. I received a reading online from a psychic who worked with cards. I’ve done this reading in the past and had some questions about what to expect in the next year.
   We’ll the lady ended up telling me the man I am with is not my soul mate and we are going to end up splitting up and I will be moving from relationship to relationship!!! This broke my heart because I truly love this man. Of course I have had my doubts. Everyone does at some point or another in a relationship! But I am literally thinking about what she told me day after day after day.
   I kind of feel in my heart she told me that for a reason. Because now I am 20 times more in love with this man because of the consistent fear of losing him.
   This one life coach lady told me he is the man for me and he is good for me. That was last year during a rough time I seeked guidance from my spirit guides. She was pretty pricey so that’s why I went to this lady for offered first reading free by just using my name and date of birth. I don’t know.
   I am so happy there is free will because I know in my heart everything is telling me this man is my soul mate.

5. Sheena, you always have to trust your own self, and of course how life shows up for you. One thing though readings are influenced greatly by the state of mind you approach the reading from. Plus readers are interpreters of signs etc. Ask yourself what was your state of mind when you went to see the woman who told you all the challenging stuff? If you went in with a fear based need you will be shown what you’re most afraid of. Now I have no idea how reputable this person was to begin with but I always say come to the oracle in the most neutral receptive way. Love is always a tricky thing to read about if the person is obsessed about the other person. I do believe there is free will and we can change our future. I was told by someone quite famous that I would never be with a faithful man and that I would never be very successful and I needed to accept these things and choose accordingly. Maybe I needed that push to change my patterns. I sure did change those patterns and the opposite became true for me. I refused to accept it although I was haunted by his words for a long time.

6. Hi Colette

   I was wondering what you would say about my reading. I went to my psychic and she told me that I married a man I was with in a past life and we were brought together to be together in this life as we were seperated in our past lives. Problem is when I went I wanted to here that we would be together forever and be happy and live life perfectly fine bc at that time I was living in fear of losing him as he is a great guy. Without me saying any of that to her she told me I would have a good life with him, I would have kids etc. Now fast forward ten months and I have been in a state of eternal limbo it seems where I’m constantly thinking do I leave him to find someone better, is he the only man that will ever love me? Am I giving up something good in hope for something great?? Will I regret leaving him or staying? And now I can’t tell if that is my inner voice telling me or just some fear I now have of the future and I don’t want to find out so I am running from it.
   Any advice you can give on that would be great as I am at a big crossroad.
   Thanks
   Sage

7. Check your motives, we always have a choice. There is no right or wrong way, just consequences, cause and effect. Every action causes a reaction in the Field. When in doubt do nothing and develop a conscious contact to your higher power. Pray, meditate, and ask for an answer from Spirit- it always comes.

8. Hi,

   My husband and I have had so many problems in our marriage. He’s passive aggressive and I couldn’t see the problem until I received a reading. The psychic told me that he loves me but regrets the mean things he does to me, however does not say he’s sorry and he doesn’t know why he does it. and she told me that we were meant to have a son and we would be happy. we got in a huge argument and he left., I asked to talk/see him and he ignored me. for a week … ignores me every time we argue… so i had an abortion. He makes m feel like a nothing. No self esteem I have.. I feel so stupid when I’m with him. The psychic said we were meant to be. But how when my husband won’t even hold me at night when I ask…? Did I alter our destiny? He never changed… never owned up to his responsibilities in regards to the failing marriage. Is it over? I’ve done the worst thing ever and regret it dearly. I want to work it out… but this decision has made a huge change. I need help. he Hates me now, and wants a divorce. but can it be changed? can we both change to make it right?

9. This sounds like you need marriage counseling and if he’s not willing to work this out – (nothing psychic about this advice)- I would first and foremost find your self worth and self esteem, pack them up and walk away. I also think you need to get really honest with yourself. Self pity, and being a victim may be a way for you not to take responsibility for your life. Love your self first be willing to do the work on you not on him. 😉 You can do it xoox

10. Hi Dear,
    I went to a psychic and she told me that i need to nuture myself first.. that i’m with someone but my heart is with someone else… that the person i’m in love with who has a person in he’s life is in a crossroads just like am.. that if he isn’t the one that someone else is but that someone is going to enter my life in about two months.. idk what to think at this point.. cards i remember coming out were.. The Lovers, Hierophant, hanged man, 6 swords, 6 pentacles, Justice, and Strength.. any advice ? Thank You

11. Hi Colette,

    My girlfriends mother went to a psychic about a week ago and what the psychic told me has been bothering me ever since. What the psychic told her was that while me and my girlfriend seem to be getting along currently we are not soul mates, and that eventually we will have a bitter break up in the future. I love my girlfriend and everything in my heart says that she is indeed my soulmate. However this psychic predicted numerous other things about my girlfriends mom’s pass and was correct on every single one. Is there any way that I can change this future prediction about me and my girlfriend? I love her very much and do not want to lose her.

12. things can always change.. be the best person you can be. I was told by a very accurate psychic I would never get married. I have been married twice and have the best marriage of 12 years. I heard that and went O no that’s not going to be MY reality!

13. Hi Colette… thank you for helping us all understand things better. My wife and I went to Palm springs for vacation and had a reading by a psychic/akashic record reader…we have seen her once a year for the last 4 years … she’s uplifting and I always leave her feeling good. She asked us to ask a question and she pulls cards (not tarot but angelic oracle type). We asked about getting me pregnant, having a baby through ivf…. I’m in a same sex marriage…. 🙂 also have severe endometriosis…we have been working with an excellent reproductive endocrinologist for 2 1/2 years now…. without success… recently tried our first ivf round but didn’t succeed.. taking a break to save up another $15,000…. to try again. Basically…. I asked about that…. about what to expect….what can we do to help the dream come true…etc. (both of us are positive, happily, law of attraction type people)… she had us draw cards taking turns… it was a beautiful reading!…. she said she saw a waiting period of 6 months…. a baby girl…. I drew the music card and (I’m naming her Cadence…. btw have had that name for 7 years)….. I also drew the children and emerging card… she was very excited for us…. etc. Left her feeling confirmed….with what I’ve always felt… I’ve always known…. but the next day…. we went in to the same place….. simply to purchase an indigo oracle deck…. there was a “famous tv medium” there. And my wife wanted to have a reading.. just herself. So I walked around the place while she got her reading…. when she was done…. I walked over to her… she was thanking him. She was so excited…. that he apparently was amazing… so she said I should go. I didn’t plan to… but I did. He read me… asking full name…birthday…etc. Crystal ball. . Etc. He didn’t have anything for me…. just told me to ask a question. I didn’t really have anything to ask…. I felt obligated and unsure… I didn’t think it was appropriate to ask what I’d already asked another psychic the day before… so I said … “my wife and I have been trying to get pregnant and it’s tough because of an illness I have, is there anything I can do or need to know that will help me heal so the next try is better?”…. I was NOTA ASKING ABOUT IF I’D HAVE A BABY…. at that point I was positive, that I knew…all along…I was. He asked if I had lupus. No. I don’t. He said…it’s like lupus. No…. it’s not. Then he asked if active had ever told me it could be dangerous for me to get pregnant… for me and the baby…. ??? No… my doctor has never. He continues with. “I just don’t see you pregnant or having a baby”…. …. what? He continued on…too much to say here…but basically I told him that was strange because I was told by a different psychic that I was surely having a baby girl… then at the end he said to pray to a saint(? Forgot the name)…. of fertilityto let me have a baby…but if I do it’s a boy. He sees……. when we left and shared stories (wife and I)….I expected her to say she didn’t think he was real. But she did. He talked about her dead uncle…. living through her…being subjected to a hard life (he was gay too) …saying things she thinks he couldn’t have guessed…. etc. But her reading was so different. He didn’t have her ask questions.. he just read her. Asked her about things he couldn’t have known. It blew get m Yet I had this confusinssing depressing reading that really messed with my head… I’m so confused. He didn’t read me, didn’t tell me things about myself like her….. he said he needed me to ask questions to get anything. Then what he said was so opposite from my reading the day before. I felt like………. what do you think about situations like this? By the way…. I am not a serial oracle abuser. …. it was a fluke, on vacation…. that we ever saw two psychics….in two days. Thank you for your consideration. Brie

14. Dear Colette,

    I visited a clarvoyant about a year and a half ago, a couple of months after I had broken up with my partner of 10 years. A lot of the information regarding past and present was correct. She advised that I would not get back with my partner and that he would regret what he had done,which was cheating. she also mentioned he would not change.we both still love each other but I have not got back with him as a lot has happened and I don’t know if I can give him another chance. I’m in a dilemma as of what to do. He is with someone else but has always told me he still loved me and wants me back. Do you think he could change. Is what the clarvoyant told me about him not changing a deffinate or is there a possibility that he could change? Thanks

15. This sounds like a very unhealthy situation. People can and do change but I sure wouldn’t suggest pining for someone who cheated. Raise your standards honey. Be with someone who would never dream of cheating. Time will tell regardless.

16. oooooo this is a TOUGH ONE ! Right from the beginning you didn’t feel comfortable which tells me you guys were not in sync at all. I would go with the fact you did not have a clear connection with him at all and stick with the one you felt that was in alignment with your energy. A similar thing has happened to me when I saw someone who told me all kinds of stuff NONE of it accurate and made my head spin. I am so sorry you had this experience. Go with the tried and true. xooxoxox

17. Hello Collette,

    My head has been in a spin due to two fortune tellers predictions. I previously dated a guy for 6 years from when I was 19. I broke up with him a few occasions as I just felt I needed space to grow myself and achieve my own goals in life. I went to a fortune teller 4 years ago during one of these break ups and she told me he was the only man I would love and that I should get back with him as he cares for me alot. So, I did! two years later he was finished university so I told him he should go travelling with his friends and I would follow him out when I was finished Uni, however I decided not to following him travelling and to be honest loved the freedom and independance of single life. I became more confident and really felt it was the best thing for me. My felt my feelings for him and our relationship were gone even though I had never had feeling for another man since we met. However, he came home for the holidays last year and I felt a spark that I wasn’t expecting. I didn’t really act on it as I wasn’t ready to move across the world for him but it did get me thinking…… Two months later he rang me to tell me he was seeing someone else, but didn’t seem very interested in the relationship with her. I was devasted and decided to see a fortune teller who told me that he still liked me but he would not want me in two months. So I basically haven’t heard from him since then and our chance of a relationship is gone. But she also told me that there were no other men around me and there hasn’t been. I am just terrified that I will never meet anyone again. I feel like I should get another reading but I’m terrified that they will say the same thing. I know free will and choice play a role but you can’t choose to have feelings for someone I am also still very upset almost a year later.

    A big thank you for your help 🙂

18. first off do NOT give your power away to “fortune tellers” – a good reading tells you what you already know and shows where you are pointed. Nothing is forever and I would focus on faith and not fear. Be the best person you can be today and develop a conscious contact through prayer and meditation with a Higher Power. Your guides and angels know better. Let go your fear before you get another reading. What life do you want to manifest? There is a great book called As a Man Thinketh by James Allan- read it and go get A Course in Miracles and maybe join a group. Stay away from readings for now while you shift your energy 😉 xoox you WILL meet someone when you are ready xoox

19. Hello dear

    I met a man from Europe after we had been talking on the phone for few months, we met in person in April dated and married in June same year. I was a single mother and was desperate for a man cause I worked two jobs. Needed a strong family too. Relationship was great but just exactly 1 months after marriage he said he was going back to sale his house and other things to come and settle with me here. He left and only called me twice in the first few days when he got there. I have tried calling him he never picks my calls, blocked me on face book, sent emails, massages, family sent massage to him, I sent someone that was from his church in Europe to go meet him in person and ask why and what have I done wrong and he said he calls me everyday, but that was a lie. We had met through a friend who later turned out to be jealous and angry for us not informing her of every single word we talked about when we went for a date, she talked about us everywhere and it even got worse when we got married. Shortly after we got married she went to African part that wasn’t even her country and I assume she must did something there. I saw the first psychic and she told me he still cares and he is a very good man but I have negative energy in me. ALso told me I have or will have or have had 4 kids which was not right. Went to another one that told me the same thing but right number of kids. Both told me there are things to be done, also prayers and it’s possible to come back. Is it possible to come back? Oh I also feel very connected to the second one but he asks for too much money cause I have had this bad energy for many many years. I have been in many relationships with no success and we never have any proper reason to why relationship end end with any of my ex boyfriends, when we meet we talk and laugh with all my ex no problem whatsoever except one before I married this one that I am telling you about he told me I will never ever be happy cause I ended relationship with him but it was not out of wickedness, he had a wife that he always said he never loved but lived with her in the house, picked and dropped her to school and babysat their baby 6 full days a week and I could not keep up in this kind of relationship. I needed my own man and lover for my life!, a man my kids can call daddy.

20. I’ve been waiting to concieve again since my miscarriage. I was told by my regular light worker that I will be with a child in my arms by next summer. Last night I went to a workshop where the speaker was a medium and she tells me I won’t get pregnant until the winter of next year! I am confused. I don’t understand. She said she saw February; that broke my heart because I’ve been trying for four months already.

21. Don’t give your power away to a reading. Your future is not here yet. You will get pregnant on God’s timetable anyway not yours. Keep the faith. Choose to believe your baby will come in divine timing. Babies are never late.

22. Hey Colette :),

    On saturday the pub i work in had a ladies day and they had a really amazing psycic/medium/palm reading lady their i was contemplating whether to have one or not because i was scared but my managers snuck me in bcos they thought it would help me to feel better about stuff but now i feel worse and i wont stop thhinking about it over and over again..

    Everything she said was spot on about my current situation and everything then the main thing she brought up was my partner.. she said he is not the one for me and that he will squash me and cast a shadow over me but it could work i need to step up the plate but i’ll still be in a bad relationship and i’ve got another person on their way but they wont be th one either and i’ll go through 10 experiences/relationships before i meet some one i have a deep connection with and it will last but they wont be the one then i will meet someone with a deeper connection and it will all make sense and they will be the one and im thinking hold the phoneeee i know me and my partner have a bit of a rocky relationship like any normal relationship but i cant shake that shes said he isnt the one for me when everything else she said was spot on and i dont want anyone else i only want him and to share my life have children with only him.. i share a strong connection with him and no matter what life puts us through we still love each other strongly unconditionally and my heart is breaking i cant even look at him with out thinking about what she said and that i might not be the one for him..

    I’m thinking about going to a second reading in a couple months for a second opinion do you think thats a good idea?.. i’m so happy i came across your page! because i’ve been crying non stop and i feel like an idiot crying all the time over something that hasnt happened yet and getting really sad and down about it..

    Thank you very much for taking the time to read my comment.. i havnt told anyone what i’m feeling so that in itself already helps.

23. O boy… I would get a second opinion myself. 10 more men? OY VEY that sounds exhausting. Sweetheart I was told by a similar person that I would never be married, all men would be unfaithful to me and that I would be single this lifetime. I have the best marriage on the planet with the most faithful man. Predictions like this are dicey. That said if you are having trouble, understanding your patterns is always a good thing. 😉 BIG LOVE.

24. Hi Colette, about 7 months ago in April, I had a coworker offer to do a reading for me and I said sure. The things he told me about my past relationships and certain traits about my personality were very accurate. He knew that I had been struggling with being single and told me at the time that I would be meeting someone within 2 months, and suggested that I go online to meet them. Also he said that I would be with this person for about 5-10yrs. Well, 2 months passed and on a whim I set up an account on an online dating site and I indeed meet someone, that I’m continuing to date and get to know. I really see myself falling in love with this new guy and I can see myself with him on a long term basis, however the prediction of only being with him for 5-10yrs frightens me. I try to put it out of my mind, and put my trust in God that the person I have meet is my lifetime partner and we will hopefully be together longer than 10yrs, but the thought of his prediction does cross my mind from time to time. Anyway to erase in my mind what he said to me? Your thoughts are truly appreciated! Thanks so much! 🙂

25. put your trust in Spirit only.. not in readings. Readings are guideposts only – take what you like and leave the rest and only time will tell. Don’t feed the fear oxoxox hugs

26. Hi Collette,

    I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this matter. I actually found you through a google search about psychic predictions and free will, as I really want to understand my current situation with regards to predicted children.

    I currently have one 3 year old girl. I adore her but being a parent is extremely difficult for me – I am a naturally low energy person who thrives on alone time so I basically feel constantly drained of my energy having this person who needs me physically and emotionally 24/7 and still doesn’t sleep well after 3 years.

    My partner would like another baby and thinks that if there is one, she will be a girl (he dreamt of our daughter while I was pregnant before we knew she was a girl). About a year or so ago, my very intuitive sister saw a photo of myself and my daughter at the beach and said “oh I just had a vision of you with S and a mini-S at the beach.” A few months ago a fairly well known psychic told me there was a little girl around me in energy and I could choose whether to bring her through or not. And recently a psychic who specialises in baby predictions told me I would have a second daughter who looked very much like my current daughter and went into great detail about her personality and life. My daughter has also mentioned wishing for a baby sister and drew a picture of our family that included a baby girl.

    Here is my dilemma. I don’t WANT to have any more children. I can barely handle the one I have without being completely miserable. I have been trying to talk myself into wanting one for my partner’s sake and because I think I will feel eternally guilty for not giving my daughter a sibling. And I feel like ALL these signs are pointing to me having another baby. So whát do I do?? Do I have the baby because I’m meant to? Or if I use free will to prevent the baby, is that somehow going against the life I’m supposed to live and I’ll somehow be unfulfilled or something? And I don’t want to change my mind later either because I’m 31 and I really really don’t want to be an older mum at any point. It really hurts to think of my child wanting to be with me and me rejecting it, but on the other hand I really don’t know if I can cope with another child.

    Do you have any thoughts on this??

27. I always go for the free will with the caveat that my will is never as strong as the will of the Divine.. so If I didn’t want to get pregnant I would take precautions but then if I got pregnant regardless of all the free will then God’s will was stronger and I better enjoy it 😉 Hope that helped. Psychics , though we are talented do not have a hotline to destiny. We see the likely reality of things already formed in alternate universes, or the result of your actions and their effects on the Field. I was told I would never amount to much, never be with a faithful man by a very famous psychic. I showed him 😉 – Just remember man plans and God laughs.. there is always a Higher override.

28. I went to a psychic and I ask was me and my boyfriend was gone get back together and she said yes he just going though something right now and he is young and he is acting careless and she then told me that he was gone come over my house one weekend to try to talk to me he did come but we didnt get a chance to talk. but he did tell my brother he would come back over here on christmas to talk to me so today i decided to go back to the same psychic and today she told me she dont see us getting back together on christmas this have me very confused because i had like four reading with her about the same situation and she told me that he was my soulmate and we would get back together around the holidays and now when i came back to her she had a lot of things to say that was different she said she dont see us getting back together she said she know the little problems that we had that caused us to break up can be fixed but she said he has been trying to find someone else but he not dating no one right now then she also said if we do talk and we continue to argue he will try to look for someone else then she said she dont think he is the one for me she dont see marriage or engagement in the future I love him and I want him back we was together 11 years and its confusing me that at first she said we was gone get back together around christmas and when I asked her again she said no he did tell my brother he was coming how can i change what she said to make things better I know the future not her yet so i want to know do i have a chance to make everything better this situation have me heart broken because the first 3 reading she said we was gone be together and the last one she said we wasnt gone be together i dont know what to believe as of right now

29. people change and free will is not predictable – this is the difficulty with readings, and you need to trust yourself. Don;t go to any more readings. Get close to your Higher Power and ask what is in the highest good for you if he comes back and stays then he is but if not you are meant for someone else. This reader sounds like she is reading where the flow of energy is. Let go and see what God has in store. Remember this too.. rejection is God’s protection. You can’t influence another to get what you want , you can only pray for the highest good for all and have faith. Love will come. Let the universe deliver the “who”.

30. Okay i understand that I need to have trust in myself that seems like thats what I was missing in my life and relying on that psychic for advice to make me feel better but in the end i just feel heartbroken and sad I know we have free will and people can change but what if he do come over here on christmas how do I deal with that situation do i try to talk to him and see will it work out. I think that you are right that I need to go to my higher power and ask for the highest good for me and have faith in what ever comes for me I do hope he comes back because i do want to make this work out. I will take your advice to the heart and I will not go to anymore readings. People in my family and friends have told me to pray and have faith and not worry about the situation anymore. I guess it finally hit me to hear it from you I do need to have faith and it seem like i didn’t wanna be patient I wanted to get my answer right when I wanted it but that outcome wasn’t what I wanted to here I just hope if he do come back we will work everything out.

31. if he is a good man for you and in your highest good he will be. I know you’re in pain honey but it will pass. heartache is the worst sickness especially at this time of year. I am sending you so much love. Faith in God’s will for you… this will be the right choice. It’s painful when we want something so bad that seems always out of reach.. hang in there. Don;t let this spoil your holiday

32. Thank you I need all the love I can get doing this painful time in my life. I just want to ask one more question i realize that the reading was bad and it tells me what going to happen in my future but I know that I have free will that can change the negative to bring in positive right. If he do come over here to talk and the things I was told that I needed to change will it change the outcome of the future like us arguing all the time that seem to be one of the issues we were facing I just want to know can i turn this negative future into a positive with my faith in God and choosing with my own free will.

33. I was at a holiday party and a woman randomly approached me and told me that she felt compelled as a psychic medium to warn me that I would be in a very serious but survivable accident this year. She told me that I need to be more aware of my surroundings and that it was karma for an event in a past life. The person I was told is highly reputable and did not interact with me for any intention beyond the conversation. Others have found their conversations with her to be comforting or warm (about lost loved ones, etc). Personally, I found this incredibly disturbing. It gave me a tremendous amount of fear and anxiety and I was unable to sleep last night at the thought of this. I am an incredibly cautious person and have young children and am a safe and non risk taking driver. I understand that all accidents can’t be prevented, but I am desperate for your guidance with how to move on from this experience and get back to living in the now without fear.
    I prayed to my late family members and God for protection last night but still feel incredibly disconnected from the experience and honestly freaked out. I strived to wake up this morning with my same drive to live in the present, maintain gratitude and positivity and be vigilant but honestly I am truly still very affected by this, particularly because it was such a spontaneous interaction.
    How would be recommend to move forward? This is my first time on a site like this and I found your previous comments to be very comforting to the posters I would be so grateful for your help.

34. I get so angry when I hear this. None of us should EVER do this to someone who did not ask for our advice. Just forget about it. Someone did that to me too and I had to get a clearing from a healer. I would put this in a god box and affirm daily you are always safe in a vehicle. fear just makes this a self fulfilling prophesy. Give this one to God. 😉 I see nothing of the sort around you. She might have eaten a bad olive ;(

35. Collette,
    Thank you so much for taking the time to response. Your healing words just brought tears to my eyes. I truly appreciate your reassurance more than words can say. Best wishes to you as well!

36. I had a psychic tell me that I will be struggling financially and in relationships for the rest of my life. Did I freak? Yes. it’s been 2 yrs and I’m still uneasy about it . I even asked her if there was a way to change it, she said ‘no’ and then told me to pray. Not sure what to do or how to shake it off. I keep trying to be positive. I have had it rough a bit, just asking myself when I will be successful and not struggle. I have to keep going forward. oy

37. I was told from a psychic that will will struggle in life (in all areas) for the rest of my life. I asked her if there was any way to change it she said no and then told me to pray. I’m trying to not freak out and it is so difficult. I appreciate seeing this article. thank you.

38. I’ve consulted ‘Psychics and Tarot Readers’ over the past year, most of them email readings, either free or for not much money. I asked the same question from many different readers, a few readings were positive but most of them were generally filled with doom and gloom and negativity. A lot of it depends on how the ‘Psychic’s’ views the world, opinions on life and relationships and personal experience too, it takes a lot of strength of will to detach completely from your own views. That’s why therapists go through years of training. Also, we do have choices and free will, the future isn’t set in stone. I think destiny puts you in the way of certain people and situations and then it is up to both parties to make it happen or not. The danger of these Psychics and negative readings is that it can lock into the subconscious mind and then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. If someone has been told they will never meet anyone ever, then that is what they will think and so send a vibe out for people not to approach them. I think readings can be quite dangerous put in the wrong hands.

39. agree completely this is an astute observation just like its important to never go to a reading with desperation as you’ll attract the same as a reflection

40. 2questions. So a psychics reading is does not have to be acturate depending on what you want to take away from the reading. You don’t have to own (believe it) any of it unless you want to? Is it ok for a psychic to say this the only way I see it there is no alternative when giving a reading especially if its negative. Thanks for the input.

41. Hi Colette 🙂 first I want to tell you that I’m glad I found your website. S I’m 23 years old. I been with this guy since I was 17 ! We have a 5yr old son. So here it is. About 2 years ago I got a card reading and she pretty much told me that this guy was my soul mate witch I was really happy when she told me that since I love him no matter what and his been my first everything. Last year in April to be exact he told me that I wasn’t making him happy and that we should brake up . I was devastated and heart broken . Couple months after that I found out that he had been cheating on me for that past year . She the girl told me. He than came begin crying for me and of course I took him back because I love him . But yet this girl still tries to communicate with him trough Instagram . He tells me he don’t reply back to her and that he told her to leave him alone. But I honestly don’t know if that’s really what he said I mean why would she still be begging him to get back with her ?
    Few weeks ago I went to get a card reading somewhere else and this lady told me excayly what was happening and than she said that we weren’t meant to be together a and that I’m going to be pretty much miserable all this year. I remember asking her if I was going to be happy later on and she said was that I need to go back so she can do idk what so I can be mentally and physically fine so I can be happy or else I wasn’t. He tells me he don’t talk to her but in the back of my mind I know he has or talks to her and idk what to do anymore . Any advice ??

42. soul mates can cause us pain too and now you need to ask yourself what you want? How do you want to be treated? Stop getting readings. This is about getting honest with yourself and with each other you were so young when you began this relationship. Betrayal is always painful. I suggest you read a book called Back from Betrayal , and if you both want to stay together seek a counselor not another card reader. oxoxox

43. I’m relieved to have read your article. I understand now the mutliple readings can only disempower an individual if they heavily rely on it. I had two different readings a year apart from the same psychic. While the initial reading was positive, I still felt I needed to find further do it myself readings through tarot and oracles weekly and so forth. The second reading from this psychic, while it still had some information that was mentioned in the first reading, now had a different outcome. And yet my own intuition tells me differently, but now with this second reading I am beginning to doubt if I should trust my intuition, if it is all a dream. What the reading has done for me is to let go and if things are meant to be they will happen. I feel disappointed, mostly in myself, and now just trying to pick up the pieces.

44. You made a good point. Whenever we ask an oracle for daily guidance it acts as a reflection of where we;re at and gives us deeper insight into the next right action , energy of the day etc. It’s less directed by the desire to know an outcome will be what we want it to be. When the desire to know say ” how does he feel about me” or ” will I get what I want” takes the place of who we become along the way, and remember we are always evolving, there is free will etc. – it’s a form of oracle abuse. The oracle or reader then becomes a channel for the trickster. At the end of the day it’s all about the evolution and furthering of life. What was the highest good for who you were may not be the highest good for who you’ve become. As a student and now expert in oracles, tarot etc. I fell many times into this very trap myself. Be compassionate with yourself. Allow your intuition to recalibrate itself. See the humor in it. It’s tough because we are so vulnerable when opening to the invisible forces we assume come through the oracle to speak to us. Sometimes we are meant to be sent down the rabbit hole to teach us to trust. Be good to yourself and trust that even if we do fall down.. often those are the times Spirit carries us home.

45. Hi Colette!

    I couldn’t talk to anyone about this so I decided to comment here, even though this may just be another relationship question on your blog.
    I got a reading around 2-3 years ago. A lot of what she told me actually came true. Also, she told me my first boyfriend would be six months older than I am, but we won’t end up together. She told me I was going to marry someone 4-5 years older than me. However, after telling me that, she told me to choose a man with a large physique because if I were to marry someone with a smaller built, he would be sick often.

    I just met my first boyfriend around 6 months ago, and I get sad whenever I think that we wouldn’t end up together . I’ve read articles regarding fate, destiny and free will including your article. However, I’m still not sure what my mindset should be when I’m with him because I just get sad with the fact that we will break up if the reading is true. How can I know that I’ve changed as a person enough to change my destiny? Is the person you marry written in fate or destiny when even the reader tells me I have a choice? (Because I’ve read that you end up with someone who the higher spirits have chosen for you.) I would really appreciate your opinion.

    P.S. Your article sure is enlightening in several ways. I reread it every time I get caught up with the reading I’ve gotten. Thank you! 🙂

46. be with what is obvious…. let fall away what doesn’t work.. let Spirit decide the form of who fits the love. Everything is an illusion and a fantasy anyway be open to Spirit’s guidance

47. I was in a relationship with a woman named Andrea who I love more than words. We were together for a year and a month. We have our differences but the connection is amazingly strong. We both love each other very much but she has broken up with me and is basing a good portion of this on a reading she received less than a month into our relationship and psychic readings her friend has been giving her. The reading she mostly refers to states we were lovers in a past but I will not be the one for her, that she will be alone for a period of time and move near the water to marry again in her 50’s. The way we met was amazing and I love almost everything about her. She completes me. This woman is so very kind and caring for others and I was abrasive and realize this now, I have some things to work on for me, I’m open to receive and now working to be the best person I can, regardless of our relationship that’s what I’m going to do. The relationship wasn’t abusive and I didn’t cheat as I’m not that type of person, I’m very loyal. I know she still loves me very much, we are still communicating and It’s peaceful. I want her to come back to me but she is afraid, saying she never should’ve let it get this far, she knew based on readings. She says it’s her fault for falling too deeply in love. She love me just as much as I love her, we are both going through all the same symptoms of withdrawal, openly sobbing, even in front of our kids, in front of strangers she cried, I cried like a fool in front of my best friend. We have cried with each other on the phone, it comes and goes in waves of pain for both of us. I’ve never felt pain like this one. I’m not a crier but it hurts so bad that it brings me to my knees. she says it’s what’s best. it’s terrible! I could move on knowing she didn’t love me, I told her this and she tried to lie so we could get past it but she couldn’t follow through. We just love each other, I feel without her I will have a layer of cement over my heart for the rest of my life. That I will eventually move on and find someone but not like this, I have never had a love like this. I’m 35 and know how rare this can be. My instincts tell me that our souls were indeed together in past life, it’s like I was looking for her my whole life but didn’t know. That I have found her now but have to release her. We both still love each other. She wants me to get a reading from the same psychic I made a deal to do it and meet in 3 weeks with no contact in between. We are to meet at our favorite restaurant. She said if psychic tells me to keep trying we will most likely try. If I go in with a desperate heart won’t she just pick up on my fears? Her friend Ann the psychic is a psychic in training. she has been right on a lot of things in the past but I feel she is almost manipulating her to a degree. I don’t know what to do?

48. this sounds like a mess. I don’t know what to tell you but this girl of yours should NOT be getting so many readings.. look what a drama this is becoming. This is not how we are meant to use our gifts either. Readings need to have a level of detachment from the oracle.

49. Hi Collette,
    Firstly, I am so thankful to have come across this article. I too have been left confused by a reading. Basically, my partner and I have separated (his choice) and so looking for answers I sought out a psychic who happens to be very reputable, I’ve had readings from her before. She has advised me that yes there will be an opportunity for us to rekindle but that it will end up the same way and we are not meant for each other. This person is a wonderful man with terrific values even the psychic told me that! And I know in my heart that if the opportunity arises I WILL do all that I can to be with this man again. We had a wonderful 3.5 years together. My only concern is that what if she is right? what if it does end the same way (it didn’t end bad this time, he just decided the timing wasn’t right) I know he truly cares about me and never wanted to hurt me. But by going back into a relationship with this person, does it mean I am potentially missing out on the one that is supposed to be with me? Will I end up alone if I don’t follow her advice.. I regret having the reading for this reason, She was spot on with lots of other things though. I just want to make my own decisions and know that whatever I do is the right thing. You could say I’ve given all of my power to her.. How can I heal?

50. Hey Sarah- first you take your power back! What is yours cannot be withheld from you. Ask yourself your own deeper questions. What brings you to choose someone who wanted to split up? What were the circumstances? What was your part in it ( emotional expectations etc.) Lastly if you do get back together and split up again you will learn whatever else you needed to learn and then you can decide to choose another experience. We are deciders and choosers not victims of our fate. Life is a lot less personal than we think. Just remember you can’t change anyone but yourself. BIG HUG .. ps readers hold up a mirror of possibilities only. always remember that when you go for a reading.

51. Hi Colette

    What a great read. Thank you.
    I’d like to know what the chances of a supposedly really good psychic getting a prediction wrong. Also… Is it possible to change my life path after a very well known and highly accurate psychic adamantly tells me that we would break up?
    I had been with my boyfriend for 3years, but I was adamantly told that we would break up (she specifically said we would not make it past 12 months)…she said ‘its not a relationship that would lead to marriage, kids etc….because we have no destiny link… In another reading I did with her because she had caused me so much anxiety, she told me there are too many people blocking it’s success and definitely would not end up together (note: I felt a very negative vibe from her…like she was annoyed or didn’t like me -could this also contribute to a negative reading?). I feel like I was in a really negative space at the time I went to see her after noticing my mother in laws antics…but I have moved from that negativity and feel more in love with my boyfriend then ever.
    After some time, I went to go see another psychic who told me that we would get married after a challenging time comes and passes in his family (the cards were showing grave yards and a girl with flowers).

    The first psychic and her two negative readings has had me in constant anxiety about my relationship.

    I would to know if destiny links can change?
    Can a psychic be completely wrong twice…? Do you go back with the same energy if you go back to the same one?
    How do I know which of the two psychics were right?

    Thank you so much.

52. All psychics read from the vantage point you come with. I absolutely believe some things can be changed. Change your thoughts, your actions, and your perspective, then life changes. You just cannot change other people. A reputable psychic told me I would never find a faithful man and that I would be single and that I would not succeed in my work. I was in a funk and making poor choices when I spoke to him. I went on to record 2 CDs on the EMI music label , 5 books with Hay House, and now I have my own tv show and I am married to the most amazing man. After that reading I just took a hard look at myself and got serious about my direction. Crappy readings sometimes are the best things to give you a nudge for personal growth.

53. Thank you so much for that.

54. Hi Collette please help me I deparately need your help. For some years now I have been to see a couple of clairvoyants. One a gentleman and one a lady. The lady clairvoyant I became quite friendly with then suddenly dropped my friendship for some unknown reason. About 6 months later I was desparate for another reading as had a lot going on in my life. My sister is a Scizoprenic and was spending money out of control getting things done in the house, that she didn’t need doing. Anyway this clairvoyant said she would be getting builders workmen in and getting into huge depts and end up going to court. She also said she would go out and leave cooking on and burn the house down. In the past she has been very acriate so I was very scared. A year has past and fortunately none of this has come true although my sister is very poorly in a mental health hospital. Recently I went to see the gentleman psychic. It came up about my job as a support worker, which I love. It’s supporting vulnerable adults. There is a problem with staff within the house I work in. The psychic said hang on in there and don’t let them push you out. He also said I’d be there for a few years yet. After the reading I went to work and discovered I’d made a medication error. It was a minor error it’s just that I didn’t enitial that I’d given a tablet. Anyway if I make a mistake again I’ll get a disapliary. I was so worried I went to see the lady clairvoyant again. Thinking the last reading she was having an off day and that’s why the reading wasn’t good. She said what are you worried about at work? I explained about the meds error. She said I see a disapliary and your in the office you’ll receive a final warning and possibly the sack. I’m so worried and so bad I’m on anti depressants. I’m in a terrible state. I love my job and don’t want to leave. Other staff think I’m great at my job. I don’t know who to believe the gentleman psychic who said I’d be at this job a few years or the lady who said I’d be gone in months and possibly get the sack. Please help me Collette.

55. Stop going to psychics. All of us are affected by the energy of when someone comes for the reading. It’s one of the reasons I tell people to prepare for the session and meditate. Surrender to your highest good. Trust God – act as if all is well and behave as if you mean it. There are many strands of potential reality that change and shift from any vantage point. The reason we can see the future is we look at the strand of reality that lights up for us at that time. If you feel so thrown off when you go for readings then stop giving your power over to them. You are a powerful co-creator in partnership with Spirit. Fear is a crippling energy that cuts us off from our Higher Power. At this stage I say forget both readings. Be accountable. Make choices that are honest and in alignment with your soul. The future is not where the power lies. It is right here right now. Your now and how you think and act will either open you up or cut you off from Source. Now is where all the power is to change your future. No more readings for a year is my recommendation. 😉

56. Colette just read your last message and your absolutely right. Sometimes a bad reading gives you a kick up the but. A reader said I’m going to get a disapliary and possibly the sack at work with a job I love. I was really down after the reading and turned to anti depressants. I have now decided to turn it around and continue to enjoy the job I love instead of waiting for bad things to happen. Your right if you go into a reading negative your more likely to get a negative reading. Thanks again Jackie

57. Hello Colette Baron-Reid,
    In advance thank you.
    I have connection with very gifted psychic-adviser.
    He was very helpful in challenging situations. Presently,I am puzzled because he tells me that he does not see why our broker is not getting in touch with us regarding sale of our house. He tells me that the house should have been sold already and he can not see any details of delays. We are in very stressful and “stretchful”financial darkness,because of house.
    What could cause my psychic not be able to see what is going on?
    Thank you very much,your input is vitally important.
    Lena.

58. some things just can’t be seen – psychics see what they are given or what is available ..

59. Thank you very much, Colette. Lena

60. Hi, is a physic the same as medium? I had many medium readings and they all told me the same predication, gave me dates of when something was supposed to happen. The problem is it never happened still to this day and it was over a year ago. Does it mean it can still happen or medium reading are also like physic ( meaning free will can change a situation). The predication is about others which kind of affects me also. Lately target readings are telling me something different. I am so confused to be honest. I wish I could trust my intituation but I honestly am that confused I don’t know what is true and what isn’t. Thanks

61. none of us see things in linear or sequential time consistently -that said predictions are made based on the point of vantage you are coming from. You can change an outcome or another person can. NEVER give your power to readings. Oracles best use are to see where you’re heading..or where you’ve been what you need to learn and how you are evolving as a human being- then you make decisions etc. timing is always the least accurate element and relationships are complex so they are hard to determine as well. I have done this work for 26 years now. IN the end you must live your life one day at a time regardless of what your future presents. If you don’t like something you can change directions of find the deep lesson within it. You can never change anyone but yourself. If you are confused stop doing readings. Oracle abuse is when you do too many and you and all the readers fall into the trap of the energy of Trickster. Caution is best now. What is the essence of your desire? Let go the form, and let go and let God decide.

62. Also not all psychics are mediums but all mediums are psychic. …

63. Dear Colette,
    First of all, I’m very happy that I’ve crossed this page. It wasn’t really what I was looking for, but now I found this, I think I’m on the right spot. I would like to share my story with you, and hope for your advice and some kind words. Because I’m haunted by some prediction of my future I recieved 8 years past. I never could really talk about it with anyone. I was on that moment just 14 years old. And I didn’t really asked for it. It happened on a language eduction camp.

    It was a camp for young dutch-speaking teenagers who wanted to learn French. We went to France for 2 weeks. And when the last day broke, there was a farewell party organised. I went with a friend of mine, ( just a casual friend, we never kept contact after we got home ofcourse). He was only 13 or something at that time. And in that party room there was a closen area for getting a prediction of your future. We also went tot his fortune-teller, who was a monitor. It would be fun they said, it wouldn’t envolve a big deal, they said… Almost every student, we were with maybe 80 students, went in there. So did this friend and me. So, this monitor took my hand and started to search the right lines in my palm which she would need to read. She had a book in her lap ( I guess it was Handreading for dummies, or something) and was reading it when she told me my future. And those words… still haunt me after 8 years. She was speaking French so I didn’t understand everything, but I got the big lines. She told me she saw me playing with a kid ( Jouer avec une enfant, or something… but she said playing, so I think that meant I was not having a kid of my own, but it would be like a teacher or something. For some time I hoped it was just my little sister she was talking about). And then she told me like… I don’t see love for you, but you’re going to get an awesome job, so you will not really miss the love…
    For my friend she predicted like: You’re mother is going to get really sick when you’re older, and you’re going to be the one who takes care of her… his brother was also at the camp but I guess she told my friend he was the one… yeah, he didn’t really seem to like it either.

    But right, I always told myself it was not a big deal. She was not a good fortune teller either. I was going to have some kids of myself, ( 3 for sure) and I was going to find love. That awesome job was not something I wanted, because I prefer a lover over some stupid job. But… well, we are now many years past and I’m starting to think she was right, and that I’m cursed or something. I’m born on Friday the 13, tells enough already. I mean, I’m becoming 22 and my relationships never lasted long. My longest one just ended … two weeks ago? It lasted 6 months. I’ve had a number of boyfriend over the past years. 5 or something. But those all ended in break-ups, most of the time because they were the ones who dumped me. It was always something like I don’t have feelings for you anymore, I think about another girl… and I mean… I never could change anything about it myself!
    And for the kids… my mother her uturus is taken out after a surgery, and my aunts also… so, I’m cursed? This is it? I’m not going to have children and no lovers? If that is the case, I’m going to run towards the spermbank to get a baby. I’m not even ready for it, because I’m still studying, but… I want a normal future with lovers and babies! Please help me out here.

64. ” she was not a good fortune teller either” – but still the thoughts took root and became part of you. Refuse this to be your truth it isn’t! This is all about your thinking. You are a powerful co-creator.. no matter what the prediction you can change it. Especially since this wasn’t even coming from anyone with any real skill or gift. BIG HUG.. you will get everything you truly desire if you believe in it and turn it over to God. Ps all relationships will end except the one that doesn’t. Live your life fully. Don;t let this BS take you hostage.

65. Very helpful information. Me as well have been sucked into readings and readings… Specially given someone the power to make changes for “my good”… ill never know even though my feelings told me there were many things that didnt make sense…

    Anyhow… I had a reading online back in 2010 where the guy told me I was going to meet 3 men, the last one being my lifetime husband.. He said the first was going to be a friendship and that i never knew him.. which when i met him, he was someone i already met in the past but never communicated. Very nice friend and i know the meaning of that now.. then my friend lets me go tellimg me i will find someone that has time for me and loves me.. hmm so i think back to my prediction.. the second guy not necessarily my type according to my reading.. he was of strong temper honest etcc and that this serious relationship was going to cause me to analize my wants and re evaluate my relationship plus gain a sense of respect.. would teach me to open up and learn unconditional love… im NOW married to that person and we have two kidS.. Something that never came up.. maybe things would of went the way the reading said if i never got pregnant.. we had broken up but got back together when we found out.. Gods will?? Maybe… and this relationship has been a total mess.. it has indeed taught me how to seek respect.. i now need to learn how to respect because its been lost.. no hitting or anything.. and ive questioned what i really want.. and i think back to the reading!!! Even though something havent come out the same way.. the main ideas have been there… the timing off too… Now im in this situation where im in love w my husband.. not really sure if hes with me for the same reason or just for the kids… we have had so many arguments and to the point i believe he might be moving out soon. We live with my mother due to an accident he had so we had to come here but shes sick of the arguments.. mainly from him because he lacks communication and he doesnt admit his wrongs.. doesnt take 100% action for them… and is kinda limiting himself as a man and provider. Is like… i feel there might be a possibility of change because things have changed little by little but they have… but another part of me tells me i must let him go because its been too much… or should i say i want the fights and negativity to leave biut not him?? And so these things have caused me to be anxious all the time and worried.. im in therapy.. and have cause me to start meditating and getting closer to God.. Now.. i think about this reading.. mayb is time to let go BUT i also shaped my own destiny by getting married and having kids…

    I also went for another 3-4 readings with another person… She was very accurate at first.. And the fact that im going through therapy came up in the reading and that i was going to be ok and be happy.. like a phase… mentioned how my husband did have a kiss with someone but he didnt want to proceed because he felt guilty because he didnt want to hurt me or have things get worst and ill find out.. she then said after the third reading.. she was hearing it was my way of feeling the reason why she saw that… and at the same time said he would never hurt me after i exposed it to him and let him know i wasnt going to allow him to fool around. Sooo is it one or the other?? And he sworn he never did.. they were demons talking… but u know how men are at times… soo…i had another reading with her after and she had mentioned about work getting better for him and even me but its turned out the opposite. Ive asked her and she said she saw it to be patient time always changes.. but i felt it was my fault for asking for a reading.. not sure if that makes sense.. is as if i let someone in my life when things are “ok” and once they say something things change.. somewhat like a punishment for asking… i then went through some health issue back in december and i asked her about my health… she said it was my hormones etc.. something i knew.. but she was telling me things that were from the past which still linger in the present but idk maybe i wanted to hear something else in the now or future.. and so another reading came and she mentioned a few things which i got checked for and they came out ok… she did give me positive advices to eat better, more greens, detoxify from chemicals in my body, to meditate, drink teas, get a rose quartz etc.. she also said that she saw my husband and i would have another baby!!!!! I almost flipped lol given the situation.. she said well u can take precautions but it will be in Gods will and she said to communicate better to teach my husband how to b more positive, to open up and drop my walls… that she sees us doing better and together and moving out.. and possibly my life parrner as hes my twin flame.. uhmmmm soo i go back to how i feel and the predictions from the past… We have both been at fault but how can I help him if im trying to help myself get out of this feelimg w anxiety and all.. which im doing better slowly but the arguments take a toll and i feel it.. he has helped but maybe i expect him ti be perfect? He also doesnt think before he speaks… i mean.. nothing major but my mother already told him he needs to move out and he plays these.mind games and still doesnt communicate blaming me for most of it… i jist dont know what to think or do.. give him a chance, talk to him? He should be doing the talking… ive done so many of those… :/

    Thank you

66. I suggest you get out of all the details of this story, meditate and ask Spirit for guidance. Stop getting readings. Read my book Messages from Spirit on the section called Oracle Abuse. In your heart you have the answers. Stay out of the future for now. forget what “could be” and see what is true now. Only you can make the decisions best for you.

67. Thank you for your fast reply!

    I will read it…

    And yes it sounds like a story and i do think a lot and try to put one and one together.. i do try my best tk concentrate in the now.. i guess its when i have fear when i seek readings which athe end do not help at all because they make me think more, over analyze and make decisions maybe based on what i “know”…

    So my hearts tells me i love him and we might overcome these struggles if he also puts himself to it. My mind tells me to stop and end it because its been way too long and things should of been different by now… my gut feeling tells me theres a 90% chance things wont change?!!! Im so confused… if i follow my heart… ill probably keep going through the same keep living the same cycle… am i wrong to think that way?

    God is helping.. i just dont quiet fully understand what to do….

    Ty for your time.

68. Hi Collette,

    This may sound like a bizarre quaetion, but Is it possible to anger the Spirit because I chose not to heed the advice in the Oracle or by repeatedly asking advice on the same subject matter, and as a result reap negative outcomes relating to that subject in my future?

    Eg By not taking the first job offer (that was “predicted” in the oracle) and consequently seeking reassurance in further readings have I now created a long spell of unemployment for myself?

    If it is possible, what can be done to lessen the Spirit’s anger and improve the future outlook?

    Thank you
    Phuong

69. I do not believe in that..there is no anger in Spirit only as a reflection of our own doubt and refusal to take the consequences of our actions. Predictions are just that.. a prediction of a possible event.. your choice then sets up a new adventure either in that direction or another. Take this time for you to be honest with yourself and start being grateful and joyful for the smallest micro miracles..

70. Hi Colette,
    I recently had a psychic card reading and at the end the psychic said my grandfather was there. She was seeing a military medal and said he was a veteran, infact he was. This scared me, I didn’t really want to hear about people who have passed away around me.. do you think maybe she was getting this information from my energy?

71. Hi Colette,

    I have recently had a reading (telephone) and the question I asked was will my forthcoming wedding go ahead? The answer I was given was categorically no, I was panicing trying to make sense of what I had just been told. We asked a couple of more questions like who would end it and when. The reader sensed I was anxious and suggested we ask about the wedding again, this time the answer was yes, likely. What does this mean? I feel so worried and stressed! Thanks x

72. well… I would trust your own instincts . someone once told me I would never get married nor achieve any of my dreams.. I showed them got married twice lolol and have achieved more than my dreams !

73. This post is exactly what I needed, I went to the psychic who told me I would not have kids for 9 years according to her insight. I am currently trying for a baby now and all I keep thinking in the back of my head is, am I not going to get pregnant, am I going to try for 9 years with no success?! It makes me nervous because I so badly want a child I just never know if I should take what she said with a grain of salt or if that is just a window she saw in time and if that can change based on free will. It definitely devastated me and kind of killed my motivation and makes me question if I should continue to try, I just started trying and was on birth control so it’s definitely not something that would happen right away, but 9 years?!

74. @Shelby. I wouldn’t count on timing being accurate with any form of reading, Psychic or Tarot. I certainly don’t think the Psychic should have told you anything like that. I posted earlier in this thread saying about how a ‘negative reading’ can lock into the subconscious mind and become self fulfilling prophecy. Try to not focus on getting pregnant so much, there is a saying – the law of reverse effect, “the more you try to do something, the more difficult it gets.” I had a school friend who was told by a medical professional that she would never have children, the shock actually kicked her system into go and she ended up getting pregnant twice. I wide you all the best for the future.

75. sage advice ….

76. Thanks so much Colette! This article has really given me hope and calmed my worries and anxiety over the uncertain future. Over many years I’ve had readings with various psychics and mediums. At the time, I wasn’t interested in meeting anyone or getting married. I was perfectly content in my own company. All of the predictions said that I would marry around 28. One prediction said I would meet my husband when I was 24. Another said I would meet him at 27. These were predictions from well known psychic mediums. I met my boyfriend at 24 but we didn’t start dating till after I turned 25. I’m 27 now and still with my boyfriend, however, we’ve had to do long distance again. The predictions also said my boyfriend likes to talk to other women and flirt. Some psychics said he would be faithful and others said he wouldn’t be sitting at home by himself and that I would need to watch him because he would “emotionally” cheat on me with another girl that would pursue him. A friend had told me that my boyfriend was a player. I was so distraught about this which led me to seek the advice of psychics again. After my friend told me this, many of the readings told me that my boyfriend is not the one. Because of these readings, I’ve keep pushing my boyfriend farther and farther away. My own father cheated on my mother and to this day denies that he ever did. I know my boyfriend talks and texts with a lot of other girls who are friends. I’ve been driven absolutely crazy about this. My boyfriend was super sweet when we first met. He was kind and considerate. After having those readings, I’ve pushed him further away. It makes me sad to think that we won’t be together. I keep thinking that he’s cheating on me, although he assures me he is not. But because of the readings and my dad’s history, I have a difficult time believing it. This has hindered my career and studies to the point where I had to repeat a class because it was all I could think about. My boyfriend was supportive and stuck by me. We’ve talked about marriage before. But every time he talks about it, I always dismiss the idea which caused him to stop talking about it. I was so confused for so long. I have a really big exam coming up, but all I can think about while my boyfriend is living on the other side of the country, is if he is cheating on me and whether this relationship will last or not.

77. Hi Collette,
    Do you have any information on tea leaf readers and why they are so accurate in their predictions 20-30 years before these events actually take place?? The particular tea leaf reader I went to does use dark energies and divination though none of that was used on me… I mention it b/c she was extremely accurate and everything has happened in my life that she said would happen EXCEPT, I had many “beware of so and so” which I did not pick up on and each time, something negative happened to me… instead of evolving it appears my soul has gone backwards b/c I have had tremendous difficulty with some of the events that happened in my life. One thing I can say for sure is that I DID NOT listen to my intuition and I also have a lot of the lines showing up on my palms which show my destiny. One very major life event that I did not want to happen, I did somehow even though I didn’t want it to happen, I let it happen, only to deny it was happening and all the while, I ignored my intuition or the way I felt about it and when this came out, I was hit with a huge setback… Long story short, I know they can see what’s in your subconscious and me not listening to my inner voice led me down a very very tragic (tragic for me) path and I feel like I had absolutely no free will in what happened to me since the future never changed at all and she never came out and said the very first thing she saw in my cup but I knew what it was MANY years later (about 14 yrs later) and that is the first time in all that time I went back to her when she could clearly see I was thinking of doing this…. I then kept going and unfortunately she did not come out and tell me the final result which was what she saw all those years ago. I cannot seem to change it at this time and no doctor, no therapist and no medication will help me. She even was extremely calm at my last session two years ago but asked me several questions. With my good memory and realizing what I was going through emotionally, I literally know how my life is going to end and I can’t seem to stop it b/c no one can help me. It has also led me to believe that I’m having difficulty b/c I may have suicided in a past life yet difficult is one thing, impossible is another and no I’m not depressed… it is something which I cannot explain that happens due to fear which is deep deep within the mind. It is now worse than what I experienced in 2008. Long story short, it appears I never had any free will in any of this and I want to know how she could have seen certain triggers which I needed to be aware of as far back as 1986. I did extensive research on how tea leaf readers are uncannily accurate but yet no one can give me an explanation of this and “no” I did not make anything happen b/c she said it would… If you know or have any knowledge of this, please let me know. It is beyond my comprehension and makes me feel like my entire life was a lie…….. People say I should write a book but no one would understand and my book does not have a happy ending. Thank you so much for your contribution to my question.

78. all readings through any divination system will show you a reflection of what is set in motion. People can change directions, make different choices etc. and then there are the fated events that are there to teach us specific things about the human experience. No one divination tool is more accurate than the other. Tasseomancy is one form of divination that can see a trajectory of your life experience from the point of vantage you’re at at the time of the reading. The reading at the end of the day is a guide to show you where you’re heading and that is all it is. It’s always up to the person getting the reading to discern whether it fits, whether its valid and whether they want to do the inner work necessary to change the outer circumstances. Everything in the end is an inside job with outer significance. Hope that helped

79. Thank you for the response Colette, I did not understand all of this over the years as I was raised Catholic and threw myself into my religion to overcome my fear of death. I only turned to spirituality and some kind of possible reincarnation and energies after the major event in 2008. It still is very odd to me that she saw all of this that many years ago. She didn’t come out and say it but it was implied and I even (in 2008) spoke to many people about this event. Somehow I found a workaround (which I did not know was a very good working alternative for me) and allowed me to accept what happened in 2008 so unfortunately I attempted to live my life and was so glad that I was, in a sense… healed or so I thought. So in early 2014, yes I realize things were set in motion however I just still feel since this was such a unique issue (yet no one has truly ever understood it) that this woman could have saved my life. Now I realize it is MY responsibility to overcome the challenges but honestly I sound a little crazy to people when I try to explain what happens to me. So in the end, I do not want to die, but what I was doing between May of 2009 through Nov. 1st, 2014 was a very good alternative workaround and since I was re-awakened so to speak, you can’t go back and ignore that this is there and I would do absolutely whatever I could as far as therapy or medication or even meditation to accept this or move through this… I feel like the only way was the workaround that I didn’t know that I had and I’ve been searching for answers for 9 months now. It is hard to explain without going into details but I almost feel like I have no choice in the ending now and I’m aware that I don’t want it to end that way…. It would create great difficulties for those I love and it is unfortunately a very unique situation. I just wish I had known but like you said, it was set in motion and I don’t even know if we could have changed things but it would have been worth a try. Thank you again for your kind reply.

80. Hi Colette,

    I truly enjoyed your article and view points on psychic predictions.

    I have seen a few psychic /tarot card readers before in my past and I never thought I would become fearful of not finding someone, but as I am close to turning 30 and I am still single and have had continuous heartaches I am starting to wonder if I will ever find someone who wants commitment, marriage and children and someone I can grow with and who would be like my best friend.

    I have been told in my past by psychics that I would have 3 kids, married, married to a guy who comes from a good family and my ring would be large enough to skate on lol, would meet my soul mate in November 2013. My most recent reading earlier in April 2015, the psychic /tarot card reader told me I would find someone in August 2015 and love and partnerships where strong from October until October 2016. She said he would be someone who works in authority, hard worker, very easy to talk to and an approachable type of guy who is darker in skin tone and has dark hair (I received the knight of pentacles and the wheel of fortune in the relationship sector) I also received the tower in the overall reading. I also recently had a reading via email from a medium/tarot saying I wouldn’t meet my “husband” type figure until 2018 & 2019, and she informed me my health concerns I have been having breathing related (which I have never had any breathing problems) so I’m not to convinced on the health part.

    I’m just confused as one psychic told me I would be meeting someone next month (August 2015), however she did not say if he was marriage material or not, and the other psychic via email told me I won’t meet my husband until 2018-2019.

    It is a fear of mine that I will never meet anyone, and I will be single forever. I have been told so many times I will get married or meet the love of my life, but in reality I am still single and have had my heart played around with by every guy I have dated.

    I just don’t know what to think anymore or who may be right in my readings and who may be wrong.

    I do feel lost…..

    Thank you for taking the time to read my comment, and if there is any insight you can give me it would be greatly appreciated…

81. stop getting readings.. get quiet.. do some inner work, self love, face your fear and then trust Spirit. Readings should only be used as a guide post not a hitching post. Oracles can be tricksters so you come here, confused to hear what I have to say. Stay away from predictions and be the one who has the life you desire. … you will begin to see some pretty amazing things when you surrender ….

82. Thank you Colette for your honesty!! I do agree, I think I do need to stop treating readings with such high standards and just live my life and not think that everything is set in stone. I do think it’s all about changing your view points and getting back to reality and being in the current moment…

83. you know what to do. 😉 I send people away who want to know their future without asking what they can do to co-create it? Readings pick up on energies.. there are many potential realities in our multidimensional world.

84. Hi Colette,
    Do you believe that we are reincarnated and that we are creating good and bad karma through every single action on a daily basis? Thank you.

85. Dear Colette, I was told that each moment of our life, meaning what we do everyday, we are creating karma… is this true or is it the major life circumstances only that create our karma? Thank you in advance.

86. karma means that for every action is a consequence. Simple.. its the law of balance.

87. yup.. although what is good and what is bad.. its all action/ reaction

88. Hi Colette,

    Thank you very much for this article.

    I don’t go to psychics. But my mum does and she goes to this particular person (I believe he is a monk or buddhist) and asked him stuff about me, in particular about whether I would find a husband and have a family. I am now in my mid 30s and single. For almost two years I was unemployed, during this time I also met and broke up with a guy I thought was my soulmate. It’s been a year and I still think about him every day and I have not met someone since him. I was also sick a lot so the last two years were very tough for me. I am getting back on my feet now, having found a new job and also going back to studying. I have picked up meditating, work on my boundaries with people, I say a thank you prayer everyday.

    I told my mum many times not to ask him about me. I’ve never heard anything good. I understand her need for reassurance that her daughter will get married but she doesn’t get how what he tells her really upsets me. E.g. 18 months ago, he told my mum I would get married eventually, but my husband just wouldn’t be a good looking guy, not very tall, not affectionate. It really crushed me. And my boyfriend at the time was a nice kind looking tall guy, blond and blue eyes, affectionate and warm. Now today she did it again. Apparently, I would not meet anyone this year, even if I did, he would not be the person I marry, next year would be better for me. My husband would be someone very average, not very “loving”. She told me that it didn’t mean my future husband/marriage would be bad but not everyone is fated to have a loving husband or marriage. And I ought to accept that. Why? Am I not deserving of it? It makes me feel so worthless.

    I told her how upset I was she kept doing this and we ended up arguing. She brushed it off and she made me feel guilty that I didn’t appreciate her good gestures and that I was weak because I was upset. I want a loving husband and marriage. What if I meet someone amazing next week? That I should not believe I deserve someone amazing because that’s not my fate? I’ve been through so much, and I am doing my best to focus on “right now”. She is buddhist and I find her actions anything but.

    Now I have this negativity hanging over me and I don’t know how to shake it off … I cried so much during our phone call today. I was ok before I call.

    Please can you tell me what would be the best to deal with this? And sorry for this long essay…

    Thank you!

    K.

89. well.. your negativity is like a fear seed that got planted in you. You have every right to tell your mom you don’t want to hear about this. You create your own reality and perhaps that is what this person sees to show you to adamantly tell the universe NO and become the person who would have the life and relationship you would love. I was told by a very famous psychic that I would never be with a faithful man, that I would live a simple life and would never succeed at my dreams but it was my “karma” to be humble and to accept my lot as my gift back to the universe. I was like NO FREAKIN WAY , although I was horrified that what he saw was true, I went on to co create the life I lead now. I became the person that would have this amazing life of service to others. Sure I have failed at tons of things, relationships etc. but I also have a happy marriage with a man who would NEVER stray, published 5 books, oracle cards, have 2 CD’s on EMI music. I am not living the life he insisted 3 times I would have. I went back 2 more times to see if he still saw what he saw. I turned lemons to lemonade. Let this be your vehicle for change. BUT it is an intrusion on your privacy to allow your mom to tell you these things, just like when psychics tell you things you did not ask for. There are ethics at stake and he is doing his job because your mom asked but you do not need to listen. Prove them wrong. Breathe, do not go to another reader for a while. I have done 50 thousand readings in 26 years and I can tell you predictions are only markers on the persons path according to the direction they are pointing in and many other factors. You can change your path. This is the meaning of free will. Let the reading be a lesson and fuel for your own personal growth. Your future is your own and Spirit is your partner. xoxooxoxox

90. Hi Colette,
    Thank you so much for taking the time to reply 🙂

    I try to step back but everytime I think about it I get angry, upset and also scared. She knew how upset the first time I was when she did it and she still does it again. And I don’t understand why she had to tell me like it is some good news (it’s not for me!) And she even tried to make him more credible by saying he enters everything into a computer and then gets a reading! I believe there is a higher power and I often say a little prayer or ask question, and I do feel heard, too! Of course, I am concerned that I will not find THAT person and it is hard when I see everyone around settling down – so all this waffling is not helping me at all. What helps me is focusing on doing the things I like, doing a great job at work, and being surrounded by the right people – personal growth. It’s not for me to go on a “manhunt” to solve my situation, I don’t think?! 😉

    I have read your story and have found it really interesting and inspiring. You said you were horrified that the reading was true but at the same you didn’t accept it. Thank you – as you said, I will take this “reading” as another motivation to show them that I can create my own reality. But what has helped you through moments of doubts?

    I love this “Your future is your own and Spirit is your partner.” 🙂 xxx

91. Hello, I was going to ask you this question. the reader i contacted told me that the guy i love my sons father although were soul mates twin flames it will end officaly in october with no hope of being together again. she said he wrestles with a bad sprite that makes him come forward then be distance again. another reader said she can get rid of this negativity for a certain price and she will work with me. i don’t beleive in giving people money for these things so i said not interested. another one told me this girl that he went out with before has negitivgity on him wishing him harm and never to be happy with me. i know i should have not gone to some many readers as i am a reader myself. i know it is not trusting the univerise. can a reader say an exact date when a couple will break up and never be together. i don’t think so but i want your opinion thanks . i am glad i cross this site. thanks god bless

92. Never go near a reader who asks for money to remove a curse. Readers are capable of a lot of things, and yes sometimes exact dates but why not trust the universe and do your inner work? I say stay away from readings for now and when you do go back go to someone with a good reputation.

93. Hi Colette

    Hi have been to see a medium clairvoyant for some years now. She used to be excellent and the best I have ever seen. However the past two readings have been really negative and thankfully haven’t come true. I am aware though that this reader has had a lot of personal things going on in her life and actually went through a divorce. I am wondering if a readers personal life can affect their readings? And because they have negative stuff going on do they give out negative readings ?

94. I think it’s possible but I don’t know this person. Every reader reads through their life experience and personality as a kind of filter and needs to know how to distance themselves during a reading. Here is what I know for sure. If you sense the reading isn’t clear or overly negative. Use it as a means to ensure none of those things occur. Believe in Spirit not in the readings.. they are only reflective of the connection you have to your path and also the reader. Move on.. perhaps Spirit is playing the Trickster… no more readings..

95. hello colette 🙂
    i have had readings with 2 different fortune tellers who have both said that my ex (of 2months) loves me and they only see him and me in the readings and that in a short amount of time(now passed) he will contact me..This has not happened.
    I have on 2 occasions written him an email as i have found out that he has horrible untrue things about me and things about his past that explains his abrupt ending of this relationship(he has completely blocked me from contacting him apart from emails).

    What I would like to now has me contacting him altered the reading and hense why he has not contacted me?
    thanks

96. Hello Colette,

    I recently had a psychic reading with a very reputable psychic. He was very accurate about things in my life and also gave me a time line on when events were to take place. He did say I was unhappy with my job and I would have a new job in January. He also said that my ex boyfriend would reach out to me in a few months to try to reconnect with me. I left the reading hopeful for my future.

    Three weeks later, I had no choice but to resign from my place of employment leaving me jobless. I’ve sent out dozens and dozens of applications desperate for a job. I did contact the same psychic for an e-reading where I asked him 3 questions. One question was when I’d be getting a new job, the second was what I’d be doing at my new job, and the third question was about my ex. The answers to the questions left me puzzled and lost. The answer he gave me to question two has nothing to do with my degree or anything I’ve even applied for. The answer I received about the question about my ex is different from what he had previously told me. I liked what he told me the first time about my ex and am hoping that is the one that is correct. I don’t know which one to believe. It’s consuming my every thought as I love this guy very much. The psychic says he loves me too so I am more confused than ever.

97. stay in the now.. do what is in front of you -don’t get any more readings.

98. I have been to many psychics & found they are ALWAYS wrong about my love life especially with the timing. They keep telling me over & over about the man I’ll marry & keep saying anyday now & that started 5 years ago. I am still single. It’s very frustrating. I feel I will never ever meet the guy I’m supposed to be with. I’m always excited when I speak to them & then let down as it never happens.

    They are right about 65% of the time with other things like my career but once again the timing is usually 2 years after they say it will happen.

    I take everything with a grain of salt now. But I keep going back to find out when it will happen & keep getting disappointed after the years of disappointment of nothing changing.

99. don;t get any more readings- do your own inner work, life is an ebb and flow and readings track your experiences. You have free will and reality is reflected back to you according to your thoughts feelings and beliefs. If you’re unhappy with your life, find ways to be happy, get out of yourself and help others less fortunate. I was told about my husband by every psychic and intuitive I went to and I met him when i was 44. Keep the faith and be happy

100. I would not personally go for a reading but my sister did and the person doing the reading said to her that during Sep and October of this year I can experience financial loss and my money is in danger. However, I did also had my numerology done and I have good three months saying about financial loss. I am panicking a bit and thinking what could it be as obviously I would like to avoid this. Any ideas? Thank you

101. Hello! I received two readings with two psychic. Both of them told me my ex is actually my soulmate but we are broken up. I love him a lot and we have a really good together. When I met him I felt like he is everything I prayed for and I’m finally home but we were long distance. How would I know they are telling the truth both actually said he will come back.

102. wait and see , let go your attachments and trust that what is yours will not be withheld from you. If he is for you, he won’t go past you.

103. Hello Colette 🙂
     I had a question for you ? So I have been told that I don’t know how to have a conversation with guys when it comes to dating and it’s so true. I’ve try everything but once I come to go on a date with a guy I’m totally blnKed . Even my baby’s dad told me that I didn’t know how to have a conversation with him and it he cheated on me .

     I had a car reading and she told me about it and that I was never going to find anyone because all the guys were going to think I was stupid . I have an accent since I was raise in Mexico till I was 12 and it makes it harder for me being 24 scared to be making fun of it .
     Any advice ? Maybe any books that can help with this ?

104. first off stop getting readings that tell you ” you will never have anything”. You are capable of anything you put your mind to. Most important is first believe in yourself, better yourself for you and learn to love yourself first. We are all flawed in some way and felt stupid some time. What is stupid is someone who uses their gift to cause someone else self doubt and fear. Have faith… anything is possible. Read E squared by Pam Grout and do the exercises. xox

105. Just read this and it has really helped calm me down, I just received a reading from someone in my city and they told me that my boyfriend loves me “heart and soul” and that he is the one, then I talked to the reader about how we are on a break at the moment she said that he wants to break up with me, because I have low self esteem and I need to build my confidence. Her suggestions to prevent this were to start taking care of my psychical appearance to build myself up and let him come to you. I’m having a hard time not thinking about the he wants to break up part, hindering my ability to truly focus on the self esteem portion. I’m struggling not contacting my boyfriend throughout this, requesting for a chance to talk- now I can’t stop thinking about if I ruined my destiny with this person by reaching out to him on occasions before he has come to me?

106. Hey!!!

     I went to see an accurate psychic women who is referred very often..
     I met a guy in usa 5 months ago. i just went back to see him a couple of weeks ago but got a 6 month ban at the border.Officer’s told me that if i try to come back within that period i would get banned for 5 years.
     She told me that him and i are the same and we needed each other a lot…she talked about us and was right all the way. We love ourselves deeply..we talk about family and everything else,wich we have never wanted with our ex’s before we met each other… We believe we are soulmates… but she told me that there is so much better coming for me, and i should tell him to just be friends.
     She said in 6 months every chess piece will be placed in my life, and from 6-9 months i will meet the men of my dreams.. At work. I asked her if i would go back to usa one day and she said that i will have trouble crossing border during 5 years…

     What if the guy she was talking about was the american?? I don’t know what to think anymore, i love him so much and i want him to be the father of my kids one day; something i would have never said to a guy. We almost left each other because of the 6month ban, we both got a reality check, him there me here. But somehow we can’t stop speaking to each other and think about us and the futur we would have, we love each other…

     I hope she was wrong about that guy i would meet… It breaks my heart everytime i think about it.

107. stop getting readings.. don;t give your power away. You are way too attached to the outcome of this reading. Why should your heart break over an illusion?

108. Hi Colette, Ahhhh I can’t even explain how thankful I am for this thread!

     I had a reading yesterday and something really stirred me in regards to what she said about my current relationship.

     My partner and myself have a really strong thriving relationship, and have been through many ups and downs over our 3 years. However, she said that we will go our seperate ways over the next few months as we will do most of our learning apart rather than together. Apparently he will now “grow fast enough” for me and my needs?

     I’m trying not to stew on it, but it’s hard to not have this kind of information running behind my mind everyday. I don’t want to self fulfil this prophecy with my fear, so I’m a little lost as of what to do.

     Your input is greatly appreciated.

     Sam x

109. Sorry I meant *not not now 🙂

110. these things can turn out strange like your partner may be called away on a trip or, the two of you decide to keep separate journals or maybe one of you goes to therapy. You never know what the psychic sees. I would release this reading and let it go. IN a year you will look back and see the thing she may have misread or misinterpreted

111. Hi Colette,

     I met someone when I was 19 who I had an instant, insanely intense connection with. It’s now 6 years later and throughout them, I got to know this person, was in a relationship with them for a year and have gotten back together and separated many times. We’ve gone through a lot and we’ve hurt each other at times, but have also told each other we can’t imagine being with anyone else. Over the years I’ve done a lot of research into the feelings I have because I just can’t ever seem to get over this person or the feelings I have for them. Over the course of my research I found out about soulmates and realized that our relationship seemed to fit that description very closely. Then as I did more research I found out about Twin Flames. To me, in a lot of ways, the description for Twin Flames seemed to fit even more in most ways. I started doing more research into this and came to believe this person is my TF, or soulmate at the very least. I then joined a site about TFs and made a post and one of the other members felt drawn to me so we started emailing and sharing our stories and he suggested I talk to these psychics he knows to get clarification on whether or not this person is the one I’m meant to be with or not, since they confirmed the person he thought was his TF for him. I had a reading with them last night and not only did they tell me this person isn’t my TF but that we aren’t meant to be together, but that I was meant for someone else. I was devastated and ended up crying the rest of the night. I have had two other readings over the past two years as well by two different people and all of them have told me I should look for someone else. The problem is that I have never felt this way about anyone else in my life. The feelings are so strong and intense and this person is everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner and more. And honestly, I can’t imagine being with anyone else. I’ve also always had a gift for having pretty strong intuition. And my intuition has always told me this person is the one for me. Currently we don’t talk and she said that she didn’t think things would work out with us for various reasons. But I don’t believe this is the end. It just doesn’t feel right to me somehow. My main concern is that all three psychics have all told me the same general thing. That I should avoid her and find someone else. That our relationship MAY work in the future, but that I’m most likely meant for someone else. But all of my feelings and intuition tells me this is wrong. I also get signs from the universe about her and when I directly ask for signs on whether or not she’s the one, I always get signs in the affirmative. I also have very lucid dreams about her and have been having them frequently and I sometimes feel her energy around me or merging with my own, which feels pretty crazy. I also sometimes know, in a psychic way, when certain events happen in her life even if we aren’t talking and haven’t been for some time. And then I later have them confirmed. I also have gotten moments where I’m almost seeing a flash of a premonition from the future knowing/confirming that this person and I are going to end up together. My younger sister, who is very spiritual and enlightened, told me that maybe I got the answer I did from the psychic last night because I’m meant to be focusing on myself right now and when I improve myself and love myself, she will come back. Kind of relates to what you said in the above article about it forcing you to do inner work. Really, my ultimate question is, is it possible for multiple psychics to say the same general thing about a relationship, but still be wrong (because of my inner feelings and intuition)? It’s really disheartening and scary that they all have said things in the same general vein about this relationship, but that none of it matches up with how I feel, at all. My sister told me not to put my trust into people I don’t know about my own relationship, but I would love to hear your view point on this. Any help is much appreciated.

     Thank you!

112. this is an excellent question! When multiple psychics see the same thing they are tuning into an important path that sometimes lead us into a painful situation as part of our growth. So then we get “used” as tricksters and so its not wrong per se but what you need to believe to be pushed to do your own work. I wrote about this in my book Messages From Spirit. There is also such a thing as oracle abuse when the energy gets tuned into obsession and is directed like a flow through all of us but in the end its the same thing. You must do your own work. The last thing is when the subconscious is so conditioned to only see this pattern, the psychics pick up the pattern being broadcast. You follow through but again, in the end you must do your own work.

113. Thanks so much for answering my question and clarifying for me!

114. Hey i had been working with a spiritual guide and i payed her a up front fee and she told me that my son father a woman put a black magic spell on him and she cleared it days later she said in her cleansing of him her candels kept going out and she seen that someone put a spell on me two years ago and she needs 200 to clear it and that its magic so that i have a bad life idk wat to thibk i have been to another physic at least 4 times in two years and she never seen that someone put a spell on me

115. I don’t believe in this Beware of those who seek to take advantage of your fear. Please read ‘Be Careful what You Pray for by Dr Larry Dossey. It’s important to shift your own view on this so it doesn’t affect you. The mind is powerful

116. Hi, I split with my ex about 8 weeks ago. I then went to two psychics. Both psychics was accurate and spoke of our relationship in great detail. However, the first psychic told me “Your ex regrets telling her dad what she told him(This happened and I didn’t tell the psychic about her dad so this was accurate) , she is always thinking about you and you still have a bond, I really feel like you will be back together before Christmas as long as you don’t pressure her when you see her just slowly build conversation up each time over a few weeks and she will come around and you will be back together by Christmas”………… This made me feel happy and I was confident in this as he was so accurate throughout the reading, but then I went to another psychic who was also really accurate all the way through the reading, but the 2nd psychic told me I will not get back with my ex and I need to move on and she is no good for me”.
     Like I said, they was both really accurate about other things as well as my recently ended relationship, but they both said different things about the future of me and my ex, which has worried me and messed my head up even more. I really want her back but at the moment I have no contact with her unless we pass at university. I don’t know what is best for me as they both said different things. The first reading was more positive about me and my ex and made me feel like we will get back together, but the 2nd reading has upset me.

117. why did you got twice? leave it and wait and see. Do NOT give your power to readings.. this is a perfect example of oracle abuse. You create your own future right her and now.. we only see possibilities. One saw it one way the other another, you decide.. and you will see.

118. I went twice because I was feeling low and stupidly relied on their opinion, which has only made things worse. So do you think it is possible for me and my ex to fix things?
     Thank you for your reply.

119. I think where there is breath there is hope but when we become too attached to an outcome and trying too hard to hold on we make a mess of things. Love freely, love wisely and allow both of you to decide to move forward together or apart. There is always free will. There are two of you. Just be fully yourself. Then you will see.

120. Hi Colette,

     Can you please give me your opinion on this.
     I had a reading the other day and it was very upsetting, at first the psychic told me about myself which was all pretty accurate. Then said she saw there was a man abroad (thats my ex whom I’ve had no contact with for a while, he hasn’t returned my last call) She said she saw nothing coming from him to me, like the trail went cold or something, although I can’t remember her exact words.
     When I told her another psychic ( Two actually ) had told me he would be back in my life at some point and we will have a relationship and also that I get little psychic info sometimes (although not much and only for the last year or two and I’d been told things about the situation with him that led me to believe this was an important relationship and in my heart I know he loves me as much as I love him and that he’s scared) She just said “right well lets find out shall we” and used her pendulum and told me it said no we wouldn’t have a relationship and then she pulled more cards and told me I was deluded, living in fantasy and not wanting to see the truth, she said I would never see my ex again, what really hurt was she said even if I went to see him in the town he lives he wouldn’t want to talk to me, She said she was sorry to be telling me what I didn’t want to hear but it was really awful, I had to get out of there just fled in shock, feeling really I’ll and sick almost like I had been attacked, is it possible that she was being told something to hurt me, she didn’t offer anything positive at all.
     The psychics that told me he would be back gave me more information about him they got his character and his personality. This psychic didn’t get anything about him. She said the other psychics would have been telling just what i wanted to hear, but actually one of them told me my ex was a difficult man and the relationship would be hard work ( he is quite hard work) I don;t know who to believe, my intuition has always told me we would see each other again but this woman seemed convinced we won’t. In advance thanks for your help

121. trust your own intuition.. but no matter what the energy of attachment can repel others. Trust that if this man is meant to come back he will. What is truly yours cannot be withheld from you. Let go.. and see what happens. IN the end we all have free will. You both do. Stay away from readings…… sounds like you need a break.

122. Hi Colette,

     Thanks for the reply. I had no idea that attachment repelled, thanks for letting me know that it will really help.

     Hazel.

123. iam sure and happy to come across you…because i feel your d right person with whom i can share my experience that i had with a tarot reader…..i probably didnt wanted to visit her…but because of my mom i went ….she tld me to shw both my hand palm…she immediately without evn looking properly she is says you think negative ….n then she says your greedy for money..n let me tell u (all are greedy for money)alright next think she says iam immature and that i dont hve the ability to understnd whats right and whats wrng …then she says why u hve been uoset recently i actly didnt wanted to tell tge true reason so i jus faked n she believed my fake reason and said ya i acn see that (i came to knw that how fake she was)then she said il be suceessfull in carrier but would acheive it late…il achieve evrythng but late…and then she speaks out abt my fate that its in my fate that i would never get a loyal boy or life partner..although il have a love marriage ..he would kp extrnal affair…and that i will come to knw and i will leave him…(this left me heart broken)this sentnce alwys dstrbs me insyd .is it true what she said abt my fate.is it that il never get a loyal husband ever…please help me .To comeout frm ds situatn..;(

124. you should have got up and left after the first sentence.. you create your own reality but the entire thing sounds like BS

125. Thanx for the reply.And yesss i hope what eva she predicted was a bullshit

126. I recently got a reading. Everything I was told was so on point and true and I was amazed how much she knew of things she couldn’t possibly know. However when she came on to my relationship, she said that my bf is not the one I will be committed to. I love him deeply and we’ve had talks about our future together and I cannot fathom why we wouldn’t be together. Could it possibly be that she read my energy from the recent days where I felt detached from him (due to his job)? Can I change what she predicted?

127. of course the future is mutable. not written in stone we can change our reality 1000% we are co-creators. All intuitives read from the vantage point at the time of the reading. Things change and we can be the architects of that change.

128. This is a great blog, thank you for posting. I used to be heavily addicted to readings but then stopped suddenly because I realized that I was giving my power away and not living my life. The last person I got a reading from gave me great advice, which helped me quit for good. She told me that a psychic can only see what you are creating now. You can change the outcome if you don’t like the prediction a psychic gives you. The future hasn’t happened yet!

129. good for you.. I am always cautious if a client seems to become dependent on future casts.. we only see probabilities and potentials.. and sometimes they are accurate other times you might make a change and the compass shifts.. readings should be gotten with an open mind but not more than once or twice a year

130. Hello,
     I went to a psychic last year to ask if I would study abroad in Japan. She said yes she saw me studying abroad and that I would meet a blonde British man abroad. I really didn’t see that happening since I don’t really find Brits attractive, but she said, “I am seeing a British guy.” A year went by and I lost interest in Japan and started diving into British culture. I fell in love with the way they delivered humor and the culture itself. I went back to her and asked if I would study abroad in England. She said yes and that it would be life changing for me. She informed me that I would finally feel like I belong and that I would end up having a long distance relationship with a blonde British man she stopped and laughed to herself and said, “Funny, it’s the same man I saw before. You should ask him if he ever had interest in studying abroad in Japan.” Although this sounded great, I remembered she said I would go abroad in Japan too. I (not being shy) asked her why Japan didn’t work out. She said “You do this thing where you send negative energy out into the world and the universe responds to that. When you see yourself doing something amazing, you quickly think ‘No that can’t happen.'” After talking a bit more. She noticed that I was feeling like it wasn’t happening because I didn’t have a lot of money to study abroad. She stopped the reading and said “Write this down: It is not our job to know how.” She has been wrong and right before, but I am trying to find out if it is me or her. The news she told me was great, but she did inform me that I would take out a loan to be able to travel (Which makes me terrified). I guess it’s a case of it’s too good to be true. I am trying to let my life happen, but I can’t stop thinking “is this going to change my reading?” How can I change my outlook to a more positive outlook.

131. Hi Colette

     Please can you offer your advice and intuition here? I have seen the same psychic twice over the course of three years. The first time I saw him I had come out of a relationship and the psychic outright told me he was gone and the reason he ended it with me was not genuine – too true now with benefit of hindsight! He told me this guy would ‘come back’ in two to three months time but it wouldn’t be genuine and I should NOT go back there. He did come back two months later and foolishly I did go back there and it didn’t end well. Fast forward two years later and I met the most wonderful man and I feel, my great love. Unfortunately we broke up three months ago due to baggage from his past (he was separated and had a child from a previous marriage) and his wife demanded they try again for the sake of the child. He was very, very conflicted about what to do but felt he owed it to his little girl to give it one more go, especially as his wife had post-natal depression amongst other problems and lived in another country. He said he doubted it would work a second time with her but he couldn’t not try for his daughters sake, and that he loved me so much and felt so guilty for the pain he caused me. Anyway, fast forward through my awful breakup period which I am still in (no contact with ex) and I went back to the same psychic. As he had been so spot on with my prior breakup, I assumed he’d say much the same to me this time – move on, the guy has gone. Instead he didn’t – he said he felt guilt had drawn him back to his baggage surrounding his separated wife and kid and that he would be back for me after my birthday in late January. The problem is that this is making it really hard for me to treat this breakup as final as I’m pining for a hopeful reunion – really unhealthy. My close friend went to a fantastic psychic recently and recommended I see her for a second opinion on this current situ I am in. It’s so hard to move on when I’ve been told this about him and yet it’s also dangerous too to get too many opinions I feel. What would you recommend? Thank you in advance I’m so confused….

132. you know exactly what you need to do.. file it as it hasn’t happened yet and move on anyway.. pining will actually push this man away anyway.. it always acts as an energetic deterrent. Give yourself a hug and let things play out. If he is yours back will he come if he is not he will not. Don;t wait for a prediction to come true you might miss out on other amazing things.

133. Hi Colette

     My sister went to a psychic and the psychic told her that she was worried about me and why was i dating a cheating man and this lowering my standards. And she kept saying she was worried about me.

     I didn’t ask for a reading and I was not even there and I didn’t even know that my sister was going to see a psychic. Thus I did not understand why would the psychic pick-up on me, especially something which I deem was not relevant because the guy was an ex already.

     Now due to this new information, my mind can’t stop thinking about. I even made contact with my ex….whom I still love very much, but we broke up because he could not make-up his mind about marrying me. I need him to make his intentions clear because this was going to be a polygamist marriage and i was not prepared to be his mistress. Cheating is never a factor i give much attention to in relationships because I have realised that most of the things we do wrong are a result of our fears /and insecurities and if those fears are eliminated the symptoms disappear automatically….so anyone can work through anything they do wrong if they are willing to face their fears. As such there are certain flaws I can bear from people because I am not perfect myself…however there are also those I cannot stand. Cheating has never been a top concern in relationships as I do not have time to play watch-dog. As long as I make means to ensure that I’m sexually safe and I feel loved and appreciated…this is the only starting point I need to work towards something.

     If I had gone to a psychic myself…I would have asked about marriage and not cheating. So why would the psychic mention something irrelevant and not even mention my current pressing issues regarding the job that has got me depressed and the book I’m trying to finish.
     Could the psychic have read my sister’s worries and not mine?

     Thanks

134. Hi Colette,

     I have always been skeptical about psychic readings, however, recently I was going through some indescribable personal changes, I am very confused of who I am and what I want, most important of all my mind is too terrify to not being able to overcome a fear I have for a long time. Anyhow, a family of mine brought up how she used to go to psychic during her university years just for fun. I guess I was moved by this idea, maybe because of my weak mind will (as I said, I am very skeptical about it and have always believe that dreams and happiness come true when hardwork and some times luck coincidentally meets).

     So long story short, I went there, spent 80 bukcs, during the reading she kept going on and on, I feel like some of the stuff she said was accurate but because the reason I was even there is because I am very confused right now, so to to be honest, I wasn’t there to know what’s the answer of my life but more like wanting to know who I really am.

     She told me that theres a female figure in my life who is blocking my way to succeed, but the only imprtant female figure in my life is my mom and sister, and they sacrifice every thing, time, money, and energy, to help me get to where I am now, so it got me really confused. Then she told me I will never have true love in my whole life??? To be honest, I have never been looking for a serious guy, not because I dont want to, I just feel a lot of the time the timings arent right and I am still young dont know what are the type of person I am looking for. But still, it got me all scared, since I have never been in a serious relationship.

     At the end, she asked me if I want more help from her, in which she will sue nine dozen roses to help me or something. But it will costs $240!! I am a student and I live in a very expensive cities, I told her I dont have the money but she said I can bring half first then pay the other half within 3 months. I was so confused at the moment, so I just smiled and say ok I will come back in a few days from now.

     What do you Colette? Does this seems just odd?

     Thank you.

     (PS I found the psychic on the internet and she has a very high ratings people say she is accurate…….. So thats why I am a bit more confused now….)

135. first of all.. skepticism is valuable and important. I still have a healthy form of skepticism that I maintain is why I continue to research and study and explore aspects of this area. If you were to read this note to me as if it was written by someone else what would you say to this girl?Self knowledge and release from fear will never come from going to a psychic for one reading. Who you really are needs to be explored by you through asking questions of yourself and doing some real work on you. I highly suggest you leave the roses and perhaps buy a couple books. I highly recommend Byron Katie’s The Work., A Course in Miracles, and Dr. Joe Dispenza’s book You Are The Placebo.

136. oracles can act as tricksters without knowing it triggering a chain of events of unfinished business, plus all psychics and intuitives read through the filter of their life experience and personality which if they are really good they will be able to move their bias aside. Given this person saw the polygamy in her eyes she thought it was cheating. This is only my opinion you realize. Relationships are active emotionally not just physically and it appears this woman saw the relationship as active. Bottom line however is do not ever give your power over to a psychic. All readings are like amorphous maps of potentials and possibilities. And, yes she could have read your sister’s worries and her perspective on your situation. Not everyone understands polygamy.

137. Colette I want to thank you for the advice that you give in this post.

     On Sunday I approached a psychic to help me move on from a man who was my best friend – a few months ago he turned his back on me, cut off our friendship without any reason – and we didnt even have an arguement. It took me months to get over it. When I saw him recently to try to reconcile he said he wanted to be friends but was soo cold, and when I hugged him he almost pushed me away. I thought ok thats alright – even though I was hurt. That hurt turned to anger – and i spent time angry and upset and thinking terrible thoughts about it. I woke up on Sunday and acknowledged that it was time to move on and to let go of the anger i was feeling to him and to just let things be. I knew i needed help with it so i rang a psychic and I told her that i needed help letting go, moving on, clarity, and tips on how to move forward.

     The psychic – gave me clarity around the situation and told me that his partner gave him an ultimatum but he will never ever tell me. She then told me that we will be together in 6 to 7 months time. Colette I was shocked to tell the truth. I thought oh yeah what ever – but then i apologized to spirit and i acknowledged them and thanked them for the message. I was shocked because it wasn’t what i was thinking about or expecting. Then I read your post that talked about spirit letting us know about things we already know and sometimes things that we dont. Reading through your post here has helped me – i acknowledge having faith, not being a couch potato, mediation and listening to myself. Thank you for this Collette it has been so very helpful. I also like what you say – at the end of the day it is spirit who has the last say not me or a psychic. Thank you for this

138. What are your thoughts on a daily card pull for oneself on best way to proceed with the day, or anything else one needs guidance on? Also, what if the yearly pull indicates something negative coming. Is this a warning to be mindful internally and maybe change things that need to be changed, or is it to prepare us for what is to come? A little unsure when it is a broken heart, or a reversed caring connections for example.

139. you always have free will .. so both a way to think differently and shift from an attitude and to be accountable for your own actions etc. We can always change the path we are on, and our attitudes about what we can’t change.

140. Hi colette!

     Thank you so much for this.. It made me feel a lot better.

     I went to a clairvoyant in may, she told me strange things. Things about when my grandma would die.. She said that she would pass away within 2 months, well it didnt happen but i was terrified those 2 months. she accuatly passed away last october.

     Then she told me than at that time my boyfriend (now my husband 🙂 ) wasnt the one for me, that he would mentallly abuse me and that he was a typical greek man, that he just wanted me to cook for him and wouldnt let me go out of our house.. Well he is totally not like that!! My ex was like that and i told her that, and she was like “noooo no its your current bf”
     She said that i would never gonna marry him, but he is now my husband, the love of my life!

     Is it possible that she saw my past? And that she saw it as my future? Because at that time i wasnt over the mental abuse that my ex caused me.

     Thanks alot!!! xxxxx

141. def sounds like she was talking about the past

142. I still dont understand why she was so sure that she was talking about my now husband. She was so so negative. It took months for me to shake it of, even got scared that i seriously wouldnt marry him. She knows a person that i also know. She told her to tell me that she was right, and again that i wouldnt marry him, its like she cant stand the fact that im happy or something..? And you cant tell someone when a person is going to die right?

     And after the reading i prayed a lot, i asked God to give me a sign if my boyfriend was the one or not, if i was going to marry him or not.. One month later he proposed. And later that day i asked him i told you wanted to get married over 2 years.. He litterely said “yeah i know, i was watching tv, and all off a sudden i thought about proposing to you”

     How beautiful is that?

     Thank a lot for your reply!!

143. Got a reading from a lady who was quite blunt. She said the man I am in a relationship with (Matt) would die in his early 50’s. She said it would be very sad & I would be by his side in the hospital. It was very disturbing hearing that & she went on saying we would be married & have kids also. It hurts so much just to hear it. Every time I look at him I would try not to break out in tears. I’m 23 right now. And it sucks to live life in fear over a prediction where your left alone widowed while bringing up kids in the world. But at the same time I see it as I can’t be selfish if it’s a persons time to leave and go to heaven where they can be at peace. If anything happens I prayed for his spirit to stay and fight but if he needs to go then go and left it at that. Still bothered by it though.

144. Hi Colette

     I went to a physic faire and had a reading by this physic that has her own radio show and is somewhat well known so I thought she pull be a good choice. Well I waited 1 hr in line and when I sat down she told me I have lots of bad karma and if I don’t get cleansed by her which she said would cost a lot of money I would be exiting this life . She then said you know what I mean don’t you . I said yes and she said it would happen soon like this spring I would get a illness . Meantime she’s looking at her phone stopping and talking to other people that were with her there. The problem is I can’t get that out of my head and I get so much anxiety over it . I feel in my heart that no one can say when your going to go except God but then I think I could get sick and I have did some bad things so it’s got me so messed up . I just need to get it unstuck from my mind and get the fear to go away .

145. just keep refusing this within you. Choose to listen to Spirit not someone at a psychic fair looking at their phone. Anyone can have a radio show these days. The lesson may be to surrender your life to God, your Higher Power, Spirit whatever you call it. Don’t give your power to the reading. stay strong. One thing I know from experience we co-create reality by the energy we foster in our lives.

146. Hi Colette,

     Recently i have had at least 4 psychic readings since the month of October this was due to a lost relationship and constantly looking for answers to my path and if the person who i thought was the love of my life would return to me. so i had myself consumed with going to psychics which i do know isn’t always the best. the First three which i had two done by the same person so basically 3 different psychics. were really great and told me that things were going to work out for me and it was going to be ok. but just a few days ago i was having a bad day and really needed to see why the things that the others said haven’t happen yet and it was to me a bad reading i left there crying with no hope for my future and everything she had told me was just negative and left me in this broken heart emotional state. i need some advice on how to perceive this so it does not consume all of my positive thoughts in the interim.

     Thanks hope to hear back.

147. stop getting readings.. you are losing yourself in them – turn it over to God.. trust that if he loves you he will return and if he is not meant for you someone else will come. Let go honey.. let go

148. I go see a wonderful medium whenever I need guidance. I do admit, I see her quite a bit and when I am feeling down. I think last year I saw her 3 times. I came across this article, and I’m glad I did. I’m having trouble living in the present moment, and today I asked God and the angels to help me. I even bought the book “The Power of Now” (without even meaning to :D) My psychic said that I would meet this wonderful man soon. It was predicted two years ago, by other psychics as well. The problem is, I can’t wait to meet him. I want it to happen when the time is right, but I am so excited that I just want it to happen now. I’ve had a rough relationship with my ex, and I’m finally ready to move on.

149. Hi colette!

     I have a cousin who does tarot readings and various psychic and paranormal related stuff. He’s pretty good at it and is mostly accurate with his predictions. This week I went with my friends because they wanted to try it. I tried not to get a reading (because it makes me overthink especially now that I’m in a relationship) I can’t help but try it too because of my situation with my boyfriend.

     We have issues but my main concern was that if he really is the one and I want him to be it. Unfortunately, the tarot card showed an illustration of a man with three women. And my cousin told me that this means he will fall inlove thrice, and the third one will be his future wife. I’m the second woman he fell in love with and hearing this I was really disappointed. And so I asked again if he really isn’t the one, and this time a hanged man showed on the tarot card.

     I was really disappointed with the outcome because when i’m with him I feel at home. He’s my bestfriend and everything that i hoped for in a man. I don’t want to let this one go. And I was really hoping to spend the rest of my life with him.

     I’m telling you this in detail because I want to know, do you think I can still control the outcome? Do I have a say in my fate or is it pre-destined. I know that paths can change, but is the destination constant? With will power and prayer, can my present boyfriend become the one whom I can spend the rest of my life with. Do I have the power to change such a powerful prediction. Thank you!

150. just enjoy your man day to day don’t give your power to a prediction .. give it to Spirit.

151. Hi I have seen a medium twice the first time I he told me things but I could not help but to have to tell him things about him self and know things a boutique the medium who I didn’t know, then I saw him out and felt the same thing happen I also could not help but to grip my hands it felt so strange over and over again then when I left him for about 2 hour I just kept predicting what was going to happen next around me it’s stopped now why or what happened to me

152. I have a question about readings. I had one done many many years ago… I was a teenager. I feel like the reading has kinda of shaped my life because many of her predictions came true… She predicted my husbands name. Said we would have 2 boys and girl we have had 2 correct genders out of the prediction. But can this change? Can the genders have been off? Could the man I married be the wrong man she predicted? His name is unusal… I feel like I don’t like all this pre planned stuff and has made me feel a little confused and upset. I wanted the genders of our kids to be a surprise but if it follows her predictions then it won’t be a surprise. So I guess the question is can a prediction be right and wrong? Is she right about everything? Or can she be wrong about the genders and other things?

153. all readings can change and predictions are never absolutes.. we get glimpses of what occurs along the trajectories of a person and their choices. Only hindsight reveals what predictions present. How do you know who and what pre-planned these things? How does any of us even know in which dimension we live most in?It’s all a wonderful Mystery. rather than be unhappy with what fate delivers.. just enjoy the surprise and revel in that fact that fate revealed things in advance. That all said- even predicting a name doesn’t give you the experience of being married, the growth and character you develop etc. the suffering, the boredom, the elation and the deepening of affection. These things need experience and no prediction can ever do that for you.

154. I had a psychic reading this weekend and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it. My boyfriend and I are trying to get pregnant (I recently lost a baby through miscarriage) and she told me “No” do not have a baby and said that my grandmother said no to. She predicted that he is going to just walk out on me and leave me and my kids. She said that I need to prepare and it doesn’t matter if I have a baby or not, he will still walk out on me. I’m scared to death. She told me to start looking for a new place to leave that is cheaper that I can afford. She said I have to start on birth control pills right now. I’m a mess. I don’t even know what to do. She said that I will meet another man and marry him in the next 4-5 years. This changes everything I had planned. It is completely opposite. She kept telling me not to worry about when this will happen but it will definitely happen no matter what I do. Do I just leave him right now? I have 3 children to think about so I have to prepare if this is my true destiny. Please help, maybe I should go see another psychic?

155. you need to trust your self your own intuition and let the reading go. … perhaps have a heart to heart with your boyfriend – the future us not here yet and things can change .

156. MzLynn

     I have EXACTLY the same situation… Your post could be about me. I had the reading on Monday with the intention of finding out about my partner and I having a baby (guidance etc) and she just rolled straight into the reading telling me all kinds of awful things. Said my partner will leave me and we won’t be together. That I will eventually find someone else that will be ‘healing’ for me. Even when I told her we were happy and were trying for a baby, she just continued saying “That would not be a good idea, you would regret it”. She said I had heartbreak in my past that was holding me back from finding happiness and a whole stack of other stuff, then told me I need to work on myself.

     That was 4 days ago and I am physically sick and petrified. I’m a strong believer that we create our own destiny through our thoughts and words (Law of attraction) and have been practicing this for 4 years. Her words are like a curse to my soul that has damaged me and pulled me backwards. I literally feel like I’ve been spiritually attacked. I’ve been white lighting myself, chanting affirmations about my relationship, and repeating to myself to have faith, not fear and trust in the process etc etc. I know this gut wrenching fear will actually attract her prediction, but I’m really having trouble shaking it. I’ve booked in with a chakra healer, and also with another psychic who I have been to several times over the past 4 years who has always said that my partner and I would remain together into old age. It’s a HORRIBLE feeling and I can’t imagine why any loving guide would deliver information that would cause this level of anxiety.

     I’m interested to hear how you go and any advice Colette can offer.

157. well … this has happened to me in the past where I was told by a reader I would never have a faithful man never get married, and that my success would always elude me. All kinds of crap and they had a good reputation. I knew as soon as it began it didn’t fit but like watching a car wreck I somehow couldn’t tear myself away then freaked out for a while. Of course the opposite happened. Here is the thing you know in your heart in your own deep knowing what is true. Sometimes readers have Off days.. if I haven’t connected in the first 10 minutes of a session I refund the money and/ or rebook for another day. do not give your power over to the reading when it was obviously wrong. chalk it up to a mistake to get the reading and to this particular reader.

158. ps.. I am curious though.. did you not think to stop the session when it began this way? did you in any way agree with the readers view point ?

159. This was my first time ever going to anyone for this kind of thing. She jumped into different things very frequently and I was in AWE so much about the entire reading and speaking with my grandmother that I clearly wasn’t thinking about stopping the reading. So I must tell you, after several days of some hard core thinking about the entire session I figured it out, she had my present life mixed up with my past. Everything she said including the order of how it will happen, has already happened to me. I’m not kidding after I put two and two together, it dawned on me that she was 100% about what would happen to me but the part she mixed up is that everything she said already happened. I mean everything!! She threw so much information at me and would jump around that it was really hard to follow at times and I would ask for clarification from time to time but overall I was just very emotional and overjoyed with my grandma that I couldn’t put it all together.
     I will tell you, I have since talked this out with my boyfriend and the funny thing is, I’m almost 5 years out from that mess of a relationship she spoke about and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years!!

     So my lesson here is, always listen but understand that things can get mixed up in a reading and not everyone is perfect. I’m going with my gut, I’m still trying for a baby and my boyfriend and I have no plans to separate.

160. I recently was broken up with by my ex fiancé after a 6 year relationship. We met when we were very young 18 and 19. He said he needed to go on dates and do some soul searching as I was all he’s ever known so he doesn’t know if it’s right. My ex said he would only come back if he knew 100 percent he was ready for marriage and knew that this was the right thing for us. I went to see a psychic to see if we would end up back together. He stated that he’s one of my soulmates but not the one I should end up with essentially because he’s too immature for me currently and wants to be single. He said he will come back but if we end up together. He will cheat on me and we will go through this same break up again because he will still want other women. He said basically 100 percent no matter what we will end up in divorce and heartbreak if we do follow through with our marriage. Isn’t it possible my ex could change the path he’s on right now. I mean it just felt weird for someone to feel for certain it will end badly? Can a psychic really know that confidently it won’t work out? Doesn’t free will or personal growth change outcomes?

161. absolutely there is no such thing as absolute determinism only potentials and possibilities that show up from a certain vantage point. Personal growth, spiritual growth epiphanies from a strong life experience are game changers.

162. Having been on a trip to India recently romance and marriage where the last thing on my mind. Yet I met a beautiful and very funny girl the first week I were there. We just got on so well, much in common even though I am 25 years older than her… I am in my 40’s. I fought against this so much but found myself at the end of the visit which was 2 months long, deeply in love with here. We chat almost everyday on phone and I whatsapp her. Have only been back in uk for a month and our love has grown so much so deeply. I seem to know when she will be messaging me and have even felt her sleeping beside me, very strange. I want to bring her to the UK to get married and she wants the same. I know many will think “silly man” but I am old enough to know what love is and how I feel. Only problem is new laws say one has to be earning nearly £19,000. I don’t earn no where near that. I am so frightened of loosing her as she is of me. We have planned for her visit to UK this August sometime, though she has to apply for a marriage visa and her parents and my family will not agree age and the fact she is a distant cousin. I know I can’t and won’t live without her and she feels the same. I can’t get a proper answer from spirit, which leaves me to think maybe my life is at an end? I am tired and exhausted been alone for so long and to find someone who is so loving and what I feel inside to be my soulmate and fear that this may not work is killing us both. All my inner feelings know she is the one despite the age gap, she is my future. Sadly a few of the mediums I have seen are a con, why can’t I find someone genuine to help me?

163. you don’t need help you need to TRUST that if this is meant to be you will be together. What is yours will not go past you … you need to believe. Get grounded breathe stay out of the drama and don’t give your power over to a reading. When something is meant to be all kinds of miracles show up to aid you. You both need to let the fear go. That will just make things more difficult. big hug

164. I have began dating this guy and I care about so much about him but he has some communication issues. He has been hurt in the past and I have as well terribly. I started seeing psychics to see if he really liked me, alot of times he withholds his feelings which I found out is his way. What started out as an innocent reading turned to me seeing over 10 different psychics in 5 months, they all have told me the same thing about us needing each other and being soul mates but he still holds back his feelings. Over the past couple of weeks we argue more frequently and it has turned pretty rough. I’m not sure if its because I received too many readings and it damned my relationship. I don’t know what to do, or should I let it go. It definitely hurts because I feel like we are the brink of the end, part of the reason why I was going was because of an anxiety issue I have. I just don’t know what to do.

165. I started dating this guy and went to psychics to get guidance. He has some communication issues from past horrible relationships so he withholds a great deal of information from me in regards to feelings. What started off as a harmless psychic reading turned out to me going to 15 different psychics in 5 months. They all keep saying he is my soul mate and we will be together but its hard to see. Here recently our relationship has taken a turn for the worse which I blame myself, I almost feel as though I damned my relationship from so many readings. Not sure what to do.

166. stop going to readings.. breathe.. do nothing.. allow nature to take its course if he is yours the relationship will return if not someone else will come. We do too many readings when we fear the truth and want to manipulate an outcome. Let it be .. Spirit loves you trust that

167. Will do, thank you for your help.

168. Hello Colette !
     How are you? I have a question, after a horrible breakup that left me broken I started seeing psychics, I’ve gotten real close to one after helping me over come a mental issue “Severe OCD depression” since then I have gotten into a relationship she told me I was going to be in and that things will work out great and she sees me being happy for the most part, BUT after the lose of my close grandmother I wanted to step things up a notch and go see a meduim ! She told me that I will be in two more relationships, she doesn’t see me with the guy I’m with now who I’m currently having a baby by in my 30s. She said I’ll be with a whole new person. That it looks like I’m gonna have two baby fathers. Then she said that I CAN not change my future. She said people always try and it never works it’s kind of funny. After that reading I’ve been all over the place, I feel like I’m wasting my time in this current relationship, heartbroken and upset ! Please tell me what you think

169. Think you’re giving your power away to psychics and that you have to be accountable for your choices.Stay away from the future. It;s not doing you any good.

170. Hi, I was in a relationship with this girl then we broke up. She waited 3 years to see if I’ll ever come back. She is now involved with another person. My psycic was on point with the reading. I do miss her a lot and her kids wish I was their real father. She told me this girl is my soulmate and her relationship will end and that I need to be patient. She than followed it by saying she is not God that things will play out accordingly, but she then says again to be patient for her and looked me square in the eyes and said “do you understand”. Not sure what to think?

171. I needed to read this do badly tonight. O have been so desperate over this situation I was supposed to move in May to Michigan from California it got postponed was supposed to move in early July just got postponed again now its supposed to be early August I was doing the online tarot cards from different sites multiple times a day everyday. I noticed the cards stopped working almost like they gave up they were no longer giving me true answers. The days I cry and am so upset the cards are negative and stay that way. I consulted several different online psychics they all told me I would be moved to Michigan by mid to late Zjuly not going to happen in July them I realized free will can change anything and the energy they were picking up on was what was supposed to be moving in July. But the first week I’m August isn’t that far off time else from July. I’m trying to just stay calm and not do anymore readings on myself for a while or at least until after August

172. hang in there 😉

173. Hi I’ve had 4 readings with Diff people 3 Said my ex comes back and we work things one and the other said no it’s done I mobe fowaed into a new relationship why did I get diff Answers how will I know which is right

174. stop getting readings

175. In regards to my question be4 I’ve stopped getting readings could I be getting diff Answers coz iM not ment to know i am just ment to let be it be and what will be will be

176. let it be

177. I was told that I would never be able to do anything myself. I try not to let it get tome but it really does . This gave me hope thank you so much

178. Hello Colette
     Thank you for your article. I have been contemplating why I have been feeling on the downside seeing certain psychics and mediums. I am an empath and have been going regularly to meditation groups and classes to help me understand and develop my own psychic abilities. I used to see psychics a lot in the past and started going to these groups for that reason–to find the answers within myself.

     Occasionally, I’ll have a couple readings and others will give a spontaneous reading I did not ask for. I notice that sometimes beautiful uplifting messages from Angels or guides will come through. Those messages are reassuring that I’m loved and guided–which I think that deep down we all want to hear. Other times it feels as if it is coming through the psychics personal filter. They might be going through personal difficulties and as an empath I feel it and unfortunately take the dissapointing news to heart. I kindof regret those messages because I had a stronger vision of what I wanted before I had the reading. My issue is getting back on track when I want to create my own reality and free will. I’ll hear this career path is better for you according the guides or I won’t be having children or love is coming next month, (but months passed and no man in sight yet). I agree with what you said that messages can make you take action to create what you want–even if God has a plan–at least I tried! Maybe the sadness I feel ise result of giving my power away.

179. Hi collete. I have had two reading since Jan last year, both around 8/9 months apart. In the first one the reader picked up a man not central in my life yet, his birth month & personality. I had met a man online & have been in a relationship with him for 5.5 years now. He is ten years younger (doesn’t bother him) and I have had a close loving bond and an energetic connection to him since we met. I ‘feel’ him when he’s thinking of me which is very hard to describe and I’ll bet hard to understand for others too. It’s a warm loving feeling mostly in my chest. She told me he was the one & we will marry. Recently though, we had a fall out -I got fearful of my strong emotions for him, he got upset & we separated for a couple weeks. I could still feel him throughout the separation. At the times he woke etc (we have a big time diff) he is in ca I’m in uk. I went to the reader and mentioned the fallout & she immediately told me he’s not the one for me but there is another relationship coming with someone else. The connective pulling feel continued which makes me feel he is definitely the one as of now & i text him to ask is its over. He said no & he will call me soon. (Time diff) I just have this deep intuitive feeling that this is what is true for me. He was so glad I text & sent me pics he’d saved for me about yoga (which I love). This assured me he wants me in his life & with trust in spirit/God I will just allow things to flow with him. No attachment, just love. This kind of proves the reader picked up what was on my mind at each point I guess..x

180. I hate how people beat up on psychics and act like we are all scammers and users. Just like everything in life there are some who are good intentioned and some who are out to enrich themselves. You have pastors and religious con men who claim to have all the answers and don’t. You have kind heart religious leader and pastors who tell you to put all your faith in God and when you do, is this always the answer to your hopes or does nothing still manifest after praying night after night day after day? I am not saying prayer or religion is not worth it all I am saying is in life there is no guarantee about anything. That is why when I do readings I only do readings that are my unique specialty. My psychic readings are laser focused on, love, marriage, relationships, breakups. Because I only do what I am the best at I tend to have remarkable results and a great reputation within the psychic community. People can count on me giving them the straight honest facts and answers they may or may not want to hear. People should be open to any possibility when they seek guidance. Truth all comes from the same spiritual source.

181. there are frauds in every profession.. ours happens to be the one that frightens narrow minded people or those who have been taught to fear.

182. Hi colette, im glad ifound your article, because a few months ago i had a bad experience with a reader. I went to a reader to get some answers as i was feeling abit confused about the way i was being treated by some1 and just wanted clarity. And i found that she contradicted herself alot for example she would say that everything that ive been picking up and feeling is correct but then when i would say ive been feeling this she would turn around and say no thats not correct and everything she said went against my own truth, my own heart so i felt like crap after the reading and now when ever i think bout going to her shop to buy crystals, i just dont get a good feeling. Its taken awhile to shake the reading as it left me feeling low and yuck and i no they are meant to up lift us. I also went to her to get confirmation of what i was getting but i realise that she was picking up on my fears. Since that happen ive really made sure that i stand strong in my truth and have blocked every1 out. I just wonder if this whole experience was just toget me to this point of standing strong in my own truth and accepting that i already know the answer

183. yup… I would say so.

184. Hi Collette
     Thanks for this post – it has helped me a lot.
     I’ve had my current situation over read(soul connection and love, he needed to make changes and will)which has left me questioning my own intuition as well. Which is a pitty because I have been working on my own ability to see signs. Lesson learnt, I need to take a step back and let what will be, be. Doesn’t make the broken heart hurt any less.
     When you have been “over read” should I let go off all the advice given?

185. Let it all go..

186. Hi Colette,

     I’d like to get your opinion on something that’s been nagging me for quite a time…11 years ago I was 18 and at my college’s end of the year festival where they had a tarot reader. Not thinking anything of it I sat down and the first thing she mentioned was that she could tell I was struggling in school (I was, at the time) and that it would all turn out okay at the end once I sought help. I did, though much later, and school-wise, after many more struggles, I survived my difficult health profession program. She then told me I was seeing someone (I was, it was new) and that he was “the one”. We continued to date for 8 more tumultuous years that included some bouts at long distance and a mini break here and there but we were pretty serious the entire time. I often wondered if her “he’s the one’ caused me to remain in the relationship as long as I did, as I found that as we got older and time went on he definitely wasn’t treating me the way I felt I deserved to be treated, particularly when he drank. On paper, we definitely were each other’s ideal partner but in real life it seemed more just a relationship out of comfort. Finally I walked away and he’s been begging for me back ever since. It’s now been 3 years since the breakup and he still insists he knows what he did was wrong & he’ll change but I’m just uninterested. I’m worried I’m fighting her “he’s the one” and that’s why nobody new has wandered into my life since the breakup & maybe that’s why he’s been so relentless but at the same time I know I don’t deserve the treatment I endured for so long. Advice, please? It weighs on me heavily..I appreciate any insight!

187. Colette,

     I Had a reading done the other day. My first reading. I am 28 years old. My psychic was point on when it came to describing individuals in my life as well as health issues I have. I asked her questions regarding grad school and my love life. The thing that stuck out to me was that she mentioned my future husbands first name and told me when I would be Meeting him (location) and when we will get married. How accurate are readings? Like I said, she was point on with basically everything else in my life without me giving her any information.

188. you have to find out..who knows.. sometimes dead on, sometimes way off. I prefer not to make those kind of predictions .. I like to empower people to discover their own destiny and feel that they have a hand in creating it. Yes there are times that a psychic can see direct images of detailed information , I have many times but then the person needs to let go. This can be tricky if a person gives their power of to the reading. I would let this go and when the time comes you can look back at the reading and go wow or not.

189. I had a reading and I was told that I would meet my husband through work. I’m engaged now too someone I met through work but not sure if it’s going to work. Did my reading mean he is the one or is it saying that I haven’t met him yet or that I have actually met him and we will eventually get married.

190. Hi Colette,

     I had a reading done recently and my psychic was pretty much right about all the problems going on at home right now. He told me that he saw me getting pregnant in about four months. I am not currently in a relationship but I am talking to someone. As of now I am focused on finishing school and getting a stable job so a pregnancy is out of the question. My question to you is whether there is any way to prevent this from happening or is it kind of set? And if so how?

     Thank you in advance!

191. Hi Colette,

     I literally feel terrified. I have been suffering with anxiety and depression for a while now and have some big decisions to make at the moment. I’m currently in Byron bay, Australia which is considered to be a ‘healing’ place…I’ve never had a palm reading so saw this guy on the pavement and I thought it could be interesting and helpful. I shortly realised this guy was very weird and probably has had way too many drugs back in the day and I had trouble understanding him, but some of what he said was very accurate but he didn’t put me at ease at all.
     The worst and the most terrifying part was he asked about family health history before 65…(my grandma is 101 and both parents 68)…he showed me my vitality line is all broken towards the end and mentioned cancer/heart problems and said I have about 30 years (I’m 31).
     I literally feel beside myself with fear and just think am I going to live my life expecting to die a horrible death at that age?!….my anxiety has sky rocketed. It feels like he has put something over me. I regret doing this so so much.

192. nothing is set in stone but in fact a potential reality. I believe we can change the future but it starts with a disciplined mind, meditation practice and a focus on what you desire not on what someone says will happen. Then again some things are just meant to be because the fate and destiny overlap there. You will just have to see. Perhaps the pregnancy is you giving birth to a new self. There are many ways to interpret a reading.

193. I suggest doing Tapping .. emotional freedom technique. Don’t give your power away to a reading. In many cases the reading will reflect your dominant energy and if you came with fears he will read them. I always tell my students to approach an oracle with detachment. Work on your anxiety with a practitioner first. You have to be the one in charge of your Body/Mind. Stay away from readings for now. Make your own future and live in today not in a place that hasn’t happened yet. Remember the person who gives away their power to a reading is the one accountable.This does not have to be your reality. Only a reflection of what you fear.

194. Hey colette ! I am very concerned about my relationship. Me and my boyfriend are very much in love and we trust each other with everything. We have our problems but we are happy together. One of my besf friends co-worker does readings and one night me and my friends including his co-worker went over to his house to get readings. That night she read my cards like 3 times. And she said that my boyfriend might be cheating and that we are not ment to be together. And I dont know what to believe. Ive been so stressed this passed week. I even broke up with my boyfriend because I didnt know if he was cheating or not… we are currently back together. But im still worried about what she said ! Should I take in consideration what she said ? Or should I just ignore it ?

195. ignore the reading…. and choose to believe the path you have chosen

196. I would like to new if my husband is cheating on me because his baby mother told me he bought another woman name nafeema brown to her house. we have a 2 month a year old daughter together I don’t know why she would do that females aren’t happy for me being in a relationship.

197. I’m not a fortune teller this is not something I will answer.

198. Hello Colette

     I was told by a psych, very good and trusted one, that my husband is going to die in 10 years. I am freaking out. Every night I have been taking sleeping pills. This fact happened about 3 weeks ago.
     He said all my past and present all right without me asking him a question.
     He said he could feel my husband’s energy and that is getting weak.
     And when I asked him of what he was going to die, he said it will be from a disease
     Is possible to predict death ?
     Kind regards and have a nice holidays

199. I am freaking out and crying everyday since I went to an accurate psych.

     He said so right my past and present that I was the only one to known certain facts.

     Is it possible that a psychic can predict death if the person is not sick neither has a healthy problem?

     Last year he said that my husband is going to die in a car accident. Then I told him that future could be changed if my husband started driving carefully. He said yes because we have the free will.
     So I told my husband to pay attention on his driving.

     This year I returned there and I was very relieved that the session was almost at the ending and he hadn’t said anything about the car accident.

     Instead that he said again that my husband is going to die. I froze at the moment and asked of what and how long. He told me that it would be in about 10 years from now and would be from a disease. He could see that my husband wasn’t meant to stay long in earth planet.

     Could the seers read my fear ? Could the seers really sense death ?

     I am really freaking out and taking pills to sleep. I try to change my mind to have good thoughts but it has been very hard to change subject.

200. this is so irresponsible. The future is mutable my dear .. predictions can be changed and 1000% a reading can reflect your fear. Totally understand how this messed you up but I have been doing this work for almost 30 years and I can tell you predictions are only potentials that can be changed. Turn this over to your higher power and don’t go back. Make your own reality.

201. Hello :). I recently got into a reltionship with a guy that I can see myself marrying. However a psychic jas told me that he is a short term person and that my long term partner is not him? What upsets me as that I really want to be with this guy and I feel this prediction is sabotaging our relationship because im constantly thinking about how we are going to break up. I want to marry this guy.is there any way I can chage the outcome and go for this guy?

202. you cannot force anyone to love you but I would go for it anyway and you will do your best and if he is for you than nothing can split you up. no prediction is set in stone.

203. I don’t know how much longer I should wait for a reading to unfold. I had a reading done a year ago and I followed up with the reader to see if the cards have changed and they haven’t. I even went so far as to get a second opinion and the cards were the same and similar outcome. But nothing has unfolded even after all this time. The readers have faith that it will happen and I do have faith in the cards as well, but part of me feels that I’m wasting my life waiting and wondering. How long is too long before you give up and put it behind you? Is the work to be done on my end to learn patience and unconditional love? Lost and confused…

204. readings are glimpses into the potential of the future… live your life right now releasing all attachment to outcomes… the form will be in Spirit’s timetable. If you get too obsessive about an outcome you actually set yourself up to push it away.

205. I was in a really bad frame if mind…called a pschic about a love interest returning after an argument and the reader said it was over. It really freaks me out when people just leave my life without telling me why. Fear of abandonment issues from childhood. I read about the readers who read the energy. I suppose that reader could of read my negative energy..at least that is what I am hoping for because it doesn’t seem probable that I will never hear from him again. I just wondered if you would say the reader read my fear?

206. all readings track energy and address the thread of energy that loops through your point of vantage. When you contact a psychic in a panic or attached to an idea you want you rarely get the truth because the reader needs to be adept at moving beyond all the stickiness. Not a lot of readers have that ability of complete detachment. The question to ask yourself is can you release all attachment to this outcome and radically accept what transpires? Anytime you find yourself in a quagmire like this the question to ask yourself is what part do you play here, can you trust Divine will? Can you surrender your wants to Spirit and take the next right action to heal your pattern? ” fear of abandonment issues from childhood” is a good place to start. Have faith! What is truly for you will not go past you 😉

207. Thank you so much for writing this article. I’ve been freaked out and upset for 3 days about a yes/no question I asked and got an upsetting answer from 2 reputable ethical psychics, and their answers were opposite the answer I got from a reader I feel very comfortable with (She’s not 100% accurate, no one is…but she’s accurate on enough of the overall energy/situation that I feel good with her). My intuition has been nudging me to stop the readings for a while and just let it be and allow the situation. Focus on me in the now and go one day at a time. The reader I feel comfy with uses empowerment, potentials only, the importance of our own free will and that we can’t control another person’s free will. I should never have asked the yes no question to other people (I did it out of fear), and now I have to shake it and it’s difficult.

208. it is .. and you need to be careful of oracle abuse or the readings will end up to be tricksters! Don’t be too hard on yourself though.. in matters of the heart everybody wants to know the future.. I like the sounds of your person.. that is how it should be in this line of work. Even though I built my reputation on predictive accuracy I think that is the least interesting and meaningful part of the reading.. people need to be empowered to be present and accountable for their experience rather than become passive observers …

209. Thank you 🙂 Is timing part of predictive accuracy? The only thing off has been the timing and that is what started making me feel afraid and going to other people.

210. A phycic told me my partner of 6 years was going to have a affair soon resulting in a pregnancy please help I feel a wreck

211. that is the least accurate element for any prediction …

212. stop getting readings. Gather yourself together.. is there real evidence of this? … this is so unhelpful information and gets me very pissed off when I hear that people in this profession say this kind of thing.. hence why we all get a bad name.. rather than see a psychic a therapist might be a better choice now.

213. I’ve had a reading and it said my ex bf will have the chance to figure things out on his own about what he truly wants like our relationship he came and got his Things the other day the reader told me this is him walking away for good can u change the out come of and turn it around even tho she’s adiment he’s done? I also had a second reding with some one who was sure he was coming back how do u navigate this one 2 diff readings 2 diff answers can I change the outcome

214. I’ve had many readings about my relationship. A couple psychics say, no this will not be the man you marry and you will walk away from him. While others have told me we will make it work if I am willing to wait and that he loves me very much. Can they really predict that I won’t marry someone? Or are they just showing me what I might do not what I will do? I have also gotten readings that if I choose a path with him, it will work. It all just is so confusing because I don’t plan or want to walk away.

215. How interesting that we can change the future! I guess it makes sense. We are in control of our actions and if we choose a different path then the future will be very different. I have never seen a psychic but I am struggling with some personal things in life right now and I think that it might be worth it to go see one.

216. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 years. I went to see a new, accurate psychic and he asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did and he said I shouldn’t be with him. I kept thinking about those words for the next week. I told my bf and since then we have been making many changes to our relationship. We talk more. We are more open to one another. I love him and I want to marry him. I can see myself live a happy life with him as my husband. But this psychic gave me anxiety. It’s been a couple of months now and I still have that voice in my head saying I need to break up with him. Additionally I’ve been seeing a lot of psychics beforehand and after reading your post I know I’ve been giving my power to them. All I want is Peace of mind.

217. Because of that psychic we went to couples therapy and the therapist was like…you’re a lovely couple! But I hate the fact I have anxiety now!

218. no more readings for you honey

219. the Tapping Solution helps with anxiety.. that and trusting in your Higher Power

220. I had a reading done 8 years ago by a woman who used Tarot Cards, I was 18 at the time, she is well known in my town as being accurate and everyone I know who has seen her has had a happy positive experience. Anyway she told me that ‘she see’s me with dead children’ and ‘was sorry she didn’t have anything happier to tell me’ She also mentioned that she saw a black cat and a ring that would make themselves clear to me. I now have a toddler and am in a constant state of panic, what freaks me out more is that she was gifted a black cat toy for Christmas, please help me sleep again

221. This is why our profession gets such a bad reputation because of readings like this that instill fear and superstition in people. The future is mutable and in your power to change. I would find an EFT practitioner and work on releasing the anxiety. Your partnership with Spirit is more powerful than a psychic prediction.

222. i met a really nice psychic who turned a skeptic like me into a believer of unknowns. She told me in 4 years i would get something i really wanted after i asked her a question and picked cards. I’m just curious, is it possible for clarisentient and claircognizance to see the future so far ahead and is very confident of the outcome? Since i read so many articles about free-will. i know i can trust her though, she said really encouraging stuff which helped me get back up on my feet in tough times.

223. Hi Colette…I read your post and some of the comments on here and am very comforted by your words. It would be so nice to hear from you directly about my situation because it is something that has been making me miserable, anxious, and worried, for a very long time.

     I am currently nearly 18 weeks pregnant with my second child after suffering a devastating miscarriage last year. After having the miscarriage, something from my past started to haunt me, and I feel like it is completely irrational and doesn’t make sense, but still feels very scary to me. Over 10 years ago, before I met my husband and got married, my cousin’s mother in law who claimed to be a medium told me I would be married at 31. I laughed and thought nothing of it at the time. I ended up getting married several years later, at age 25. The next year I had my first baby. Then last year after my miscarriage, for some reason the “31” thought popped into my head again. I thought “Why would that woman say that, 31 is such a random number…” and then (and this is where the real irrationality comes in) I somehow convinced myself that maybe she was seeing me with my complete family at 31, that maybe that is when I’d have my next child. So when I got pregnant again this past December just before my 29th birthday, I got really freaked out thinking that I am going to lose the baby because I shouldn’t be having another til I’m 31! This fear has gotten so out of hand that it is all I think about every day. When I’m driving, I notice all the license plates on the road with the number 31 and think it’s some message of doom! I hate that I think like this because it is taking away from the joy I should be experiencing from my pregnancy 🙁 And the sad thing is, it’s a thought I created! No one ever told me this would even happen. I think I’m just so traumatized from my miscarriage that I am looking for things to go wrong again out of fear. Please please help! I want to enjoy my baby. Thank you!

224. Hi Colette, I wanted to thank you so much for your post and the words you spoke. It really touched me and helped me in my journey. I’ve been in a realtionship that I had two readings for and it seems like when I got the readings it caused me to put too much stress on the relationship and make moves that hindered our growth. Right now he is uncertain if he still wants an “us” (or at least that is what he tells me), however my intution feels more like he does care but needs to figure or get through some of his own things. Lately I’ve noticed a dramtic increase in my intuition, but I’m having trouble in trusting that and I’m not sure why or what’s causing me to question it. So for now I’m trying to find a way to rebuild the relationship that is on edge. So I do believe regardless of if the reading is good or bad we make decisions based on those readings and may make the right or wrong choices. My readings were good “he loves me, but is sad I lack trust in him” so when I tried to tell him the trust I have for him based off the readings it led him to pushing me away and us getting in an argument. Leading to our current situation. So here I am letting go and letting God. My whole life I’ve had relationship problems and am taking it as that area of my life is a lesson for me, not sure why, but I do beleieve I’m on the right path to wrapping up that life lesson. I just felt the need to thank you for your encourage words. I need to trust in my intuition and go with the flow! God bless you and keep spreading the love.. This world needs more of it!

225. Hi Collette
     I have been to the same women for readings for years and feel she is very good but I had a reading from her and discussed issues I have had with my husband of 16 years and she said that she would NOT tell me if he would have an affair in the future but said if we have issues in the future it would be in our 50’s when our kids are older and if anyone was going to leave it would be him?
     This confused me and is really eating me up inside as I keep thinking that this IS what’s going to happen but she does want to actually say it.
     Will he cheat on me?

226. stop going for readings.. let go and let the universe show you the truth

227. Hello my name is Jayla aMD I’ve talked to a few physics about my ex coming back and they are confident of him and i having a relationship again. I was told he was the one for me. I’ve been waiting for a few months. I’m not sure what to do anymore. I did a card reading a while ago and it told me the opposite. I’m in a rut of belief of him coming back and not. I just miss him and love him .

228. no matter what psychics say to you, we see potentials , energy as it flows, then the actions of people slide in as possibilities,yet getting readings ( especially too many about the same subject) can cause trouble if you don’t accompany the experience with detachment. Then you suffer wanting this person to return etc. the issue with knowing this information is it sets up a terrible longing and yearning and you end up losing sight of your entire life waiting for something to happen that you think will magically change everything. Live your life, he has free will. You will know in good time if he does or doesn’t come back. The question I have for you is this. Can you surrender to the Now ? To What Is? .. He will come if he is yours. What is truly meant for you will not be withheld.

229. Hihi. I really need help. I went to psychic one year ago, she described my future husband in details. Now, after one year I have a boyfriend. I love him and care so much. He is so nice and good. We are moving together to new country, I am starting in new school so I went again to see this psychic because I was curious about all this big changes.

     She told me that my boyfriend and I will break up after one your or two. And then she again described this perfect future husband that I will have.

     I have been crying for 3 days now, I can’t stop thinking about this. I dont want that future, I do love my boyfriend even though I have some doubts and maybe that future husband is more accurate for me …. I don’t care. I feel so really really bad. I really wished I could stop thinking about this. Please help me with some advise.

     best regards,

230. My mother had into in a reading 3 years ago.And the reader said to my mom that she will be only having three child and in the age of 36 my father will becoming a widow, so it means my mother die in that age.This year last February my Mother finally turns into 36 y.o and yes she gaved a birth to her third child last year and now we’re three siblings. And that’s the thing I’m afraid of, it seems that it’s.becoming true. Right now she has a hypertensionand doesn’t take medicine but have regular check up.I would be glad if you give me a suggestion on how to be comfortable .and what would be gonna do to avoid this negative reading about my mom

231. what a horrible experience! Can you trust in the Divine? Can you choose another way? Maybe the reading was a good warning to clean things up. Psychics all see potentials and there are many,,

232. stop giving your power away to this reading. Can you see how you have allowed someone to destroy your inner peace? Perhaps the lesson here is less about what she said than your need to restore your faith in a Higher Power. Meditate , surrender it to God, psychics see threads of potential in the fabric of reality. REFUSE it. then give it to your Higher Power and live your life without fear of loss. There is no proof that this will be your reality… and even if it was how do you know until you actually experience it what it really means to you? Create your future … your thinking now will make all the difference.

233. Thank you so much for this article and the comment thread. It was such a relief to read.

     I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months (we were very close friends before we got together) and we have been actively planning our future. We’re middle aged people in the middle of major career transitions, are paying down debt, and are only children with aging parents, so living together/getting married is something that will unfold slowly (we hope to live together by this time next year). I have communication issues and security issues that predate our relationship, but actively work on that.

     It’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in, and the first time I’ve really been happy with someone.

     I have had some readings, and done my own. I keep getting negative indicators. Never anything specific. I asked for a second opinion on a reading from another reader only to get that maybe I was in denial, or that I was *hoping* my anxiety was just blown out of proportion and that it was actually my intuition telling me what I don’t want to hear.

     But actually I am happy in this relationship and don’t want to break it off and feel like the insecurity I get from paying attention to readings, isn’t adding to my life. I’m enjoying the relationship right now and so is he. Maybe I need to just stop reading for the relationship and trust my own higher guidance.

234. Hey, about three months ago I had my cards read and the future I was told was really lovely, only not for me. I was told I wouldn’t study abroad, but instead I would stay here for love, I would marry a farmers son who has two brothers. He would start a firm and I would never have to worry about money. But everything in that family would resolve around money. We would have two sons, but when we would try for a girl it would end in a miscarige, and eventually one of our sons would take over the firm with his wife. I was sick for almost two weeks after that reading, because how nice it sounded it isn’t the kind of life I want. I want to study abroad, live abroad, I can’t even imagine staying here for love or spending the rest of my life with the same person. I’m kind of fraking out to be honest. Any sound advice?

235. yes .. move on with your plans.. you can always course correct..readings are potentials only based on your point of vantage at the time.. and then sometimes they are just wrong.

236. I recently had a energy reading by a psychic advisor. She told me that my last love who I dated right up until he moved 3000 miles away to be near his family, was my soul mate. He is back home already dating someone new (which hurts as it hasn’t been that long since he left). She told me that we were suppose to be together in our last life but mine was cut short. Then she proceeded to say that this new woman of his put a break up spell on us after he told her about me and that she gave him a love potion and now all his love for me is focused on her. She said I’m on the wrong path because he is suppose to be here with me. She then goes on to day that she can fix it by giving me some supplies and doing some rituals I could have him back in 4-8 weeks. The cost to do so is $1200.with money back guarantee she says. I didn’t fall for it, even though it hurts that he is with someone else and I would love to have him back. I just hope other vulnerable people don’t fall for things like this. I can’t believe she has been in business for 30 years.

237. this is so so so TERRIBLe and gets me so crazy ..gives everyone in this field a bad name..

238. Today I was told by one Tarot reader that one of my relatives will have a relapse. It was said not in the tarot cards, but he was “told so”. And that his mother needs to cleanse her soul, because she has a lot of grievances in herself that they are passed on to her child. I’m very scared, he’s just a kid, I don’t know what to do I’m desperate

239. Hi Colette! I had a reading done last year, I had a Q about one person, I was intrested if we could be together, if I have the chance to be with this person (I don’t know why, but I feel that this man was given to me, I mean there’s a reason I met him). I tried many times to stop thinking about him, I told myself to let him go, but each time it ends for me with a huge pain, as if I were tearing myself away from a piece. So, the psychick told me that he is not for me, he’s not my men. I was very upset, it was another hartbreak for me. But still I said to myself that no matter what, I will improve myself, I will do everything to be with him.
     A few months ago I had a reading from another psychic and she said that I have chances with this person, I only need to act and not wait for everything happened by itself. So, I’m curious, if the situation develops so that you don’t agree with what the reader has said, if you don’t agree with the situation, will it not be dangerous to follow your goal anyway? To go against… fate?? But again, are not we ourselves changing our destiny?

240. you co-create your reality with Spirit.. readings show you possibilities .. make your own choices and don’t get anymore predictive readings

241. why are you giving your power away to this reader? Be at peace.. affirm your own truth and ask the universe for the next right action. Here is the truth of basic psychology. Of course we all pass on our traits to our children but this is what we all signed up for and each person has the right to experience their lives fully as they will. Focus on your own life and stop going to readers who scare you about a future that has not yet transpired. with a BIG HUG

242. I’m glad I found your article as it has just stopped me in my tracks from buying yet another reading about the same topic. I was dumped for someone else etc but I still feel very strongly connected to him and I feel he made the decision based on our age difference, not his feelings. Anyway, my last reading really resonated with me. She confirmed we are soulmates and he will be in touch soon which will turn into a long term relationship. Some readers told me no to this prior or some saw him coming back and another guy entering. But the timeframe past already on the first psychics prediction. Another reader agreed with the soulmate prediction but sees it manifesting in 8 months. Some days, I lose faith as time really does put a sense of distance between people but I still feel it was just different with him. I will just let fate take it’s course.

243. Hi, Since January of this year my ex keep coming in my dreams and when I am awake I think of her constantly even if we are separated for three years now. I have move on with my life and focusing on other important matters but the fact that I can’t take her out of my head is an issue. I sure love her but I want to move on. Several astrologer and psychics told me that I have some psychic abilities, which they say are extremely powerful ( they find this when they interacted with me ). I practice meditation a lot – maybe its because of these things I am still connected with her so intensely. I realise that when we were together our connections was very intense. Can you please tell me if she will get back or if I must forget her.

244. no I won’t. You do the work. You listen to your inner voice, you pull an oracle card and ask what is the highest good for me right now? There is no certainty. Never give your power away. You already know the answer.

245. Totally confused!! I went to see a reader in Feb and she told me amazing things about my daughter that has passed and my ex that left me 10 months after her passing and 3 months before our wedding! She said that we are destined to be together and that by the summer we will be back in touch and that we’ll get back together, marry and have another child. It was such a positive reading and the things she told me about my daughter she couldn’t have known.
     I’ve been to see her today (7months later) and she told me the complete opposite, he doesn’t love me, not my soul mate and that we will never get back together.
     How can things be so different? Where do
     I go from here?!?!? X

246. stop going for readings , on the other hand this is why predictive readings can be tricky .. free will is not predictable. Live your life, trust your own intuition and learn instead of getting someone to predict your future, choose to create your own future.

247. Thank you for your reply. I’m learning about LOA to better myself, heal and love myself

248. Dear Colette,
     It was great to read through this article. I am a woman in recovery and one of my many addictions has been psychics. As you described I have worn out and empty out situation and relationship by compulsive repetitive readings about the same question to countless psychics.
     Last week I consulted a tarot reader that had been somehow accurate in the past let’s say around 65%. Which is more than most I have consulted over the years.
     He has given me a very harsh reading – hopeless outcome and very dark future. In the past, I would have text my bf with big anxiety attack ” you want to leave me etc” Because I am in recovery, doing meditation, yoga , 12 steps etc I was able to manage my anxiety after a good 10 hours and able to do what you say. In fact, that day was a very important day for my BF and he was on television etc. Instead of pounding on him with my fear of loss activated by the reading I was able to praise him for his performance and record the show and send it to me etc. The reading has been a kick ass- if I continue acting like I did in the past, freaking out and acting out, and asking for this and for that , blaming the BF etc I will get the same outcome and yes he will get tired of this. I was able to manage my anxiety and we had nice exchanges since. The reading still scares the hell out of me, it was really dark and harsh but I use to build me instead of destroy me and my relation. At the end of the day, I will keep meditating and I hope one day I can afford your reading. Many thanks. Reading addictions is very dangerous for self esteem and ability to empower yourself. Blessings ! Have a wonderful day.

249. Dear Colette,
     I found out about you when I was googling about outcomes and reading. Then I wrote the comment above on how I got thrown off and disturbed by the reading of the Tarot.
     I am very happy I found your oracle cards, I watched the videos on how to work with them and downloaded the app.
     I questioned the cards on this relationship and asked what should I expect if I leave this relationship now? I got the fork. I can relate to the message and I was ready to receive it.
     Then I asked what should I expect if I decide to stay in the relationship now? I got the tribe.

     I am now working with those 2 messages and start to make sense of it.

     This is a great tool to question myself and I genuinely want to thank you for those cards. They really are connected to spirit and helpful. So I have not taken a decision yet, but I can now have a clearer view of what is really at stake and not feeling helpless.

     Warmest,
     Jany

250. Hello Colette,

     There is a thing that I see dreams and sometimes they come true . Good and bad. A few times I tried to change bad things that were going to happen. But it doesn’t work cause I see it much earlier and when it’s time for the thing to happen I forgotten it and also because at first I wasn’t taking them seriously. And only remember later that I saw it happening in my dreams.
     And now I really really wish to turn things that I saw in my dreams to a better way.
     And maybe there it is good that I see those dreams and possibly can fix smth ?

     Thank you

251. Hi Collette,

     I was so relieved to have come across your blog, as I too have recently received a reading that left me frustrated and unsure as to what to do,.

     The difference between myself and the many other posters above is that I have an ongoing relationship with my psychic/spiritual guide, and have not consulted her for just one reading. So there is a level of trust there, which has made the matter even more tricky for me. I have been working with her since February of this year. Because of her guidance and work, I was able to leave behind a very unhappy set of circumstances in one area of the country and move back to my home state. She warned me ahead of time that the transition would be challenging. And that it has been: Health issue anxieties, unfulfillment, lonliness, boredom, and a less than satisfying living situation.

     Without divulging too many details as to not reveal who I am (my psychic/spiritual guide told me to not contact psychics and the like upon moving back as to not compromise the work she has been doing for me), I will say that I have come to a crossroads in my life. I have a contract job that ends in two months, and I need to figure out what I’m going to do and where I’m going to live, in terms of staying regional or persuing a loftier goal by moving to a major metro area in my home state.

     In the interim, I recently reconnected with an old high school boyfriend. We’ve known each other for many, many years (over 25 easily). While we had not been a part of each others lives for the duration of those years, we always had an unspoken kindred affection toward each other and managed to stay in touch from time to time. I also have reason to believe that this man has special feelings for me and thinks of me as the one who got away. Plus, we are very comfortable with each other and the things we have in common are uncanny! Needless to say, the attraction is apparent.

     I recall my psychic/spiritual guide telling me prior to my relocation back home that I will come across a man that will be my husband. While the details were exciting, they were not very specific. Plus, the things she divulged mirrored what I desired in my heart regarding what I wanted in a man at the time of my reading. Shortly after my ex appeared, I thought to ask her about him, although the details didn’t appear to be a match. I also asked when I was not in a positive mood. Days passed and then I got a response. By then, my energy was glowing with positivity. Naturally, I was hoping for the best. But I didn’t get it. My psychic/spiritual guide told me that my ex was not the one and that it was ok to be friends, but that I shouldn’t get too close because I had been down that road before. Naturally, I was upset because I felt like my choices were being taken away from me. I wanted the right to see the process through and have my freedom in tact to choose what I wanted to do. Hearing what I did made me feel that I couldn’t have that.

     Let me be clear that regarding my ex and me, our focus is on our friendship. We don’t feel the need to rush or force anything. We are open to the possibilities, but are content in staying in the present moment. And for good reason. He has been legally separated for three years (divorce in process) and is sharing custody of a child that he fathered outside of his marriage. Plus, he has an unconventional work schedule. In addition, my plate is full of contemplation. So there is no need to jump the gun on anything. However, I just want the freedom of choosing what I want in this situation, ultimately.

     Your blog made me realize that I still have that freedom. I continue to persue the friendship with an open mind and am prayerful that maybe, just maybe, it will all work out in the end to both of our advantages.

     Thank you a million times over for your words of experience, insight, and wisdom. I welcome any feedback from you, if you feel inclined to share anything that I may be overlooking or missing that may help me further.

     Warmest Regards,
     NB

252. Hi Collette,

     I received a reading yesterday which has left me a little confused.
     My partner and I have recently split – he left me.
     He is currently interested in someone else however she told me(and I know) he still loves me although is lost and afraid of commitment(she also told me).
     We had a very loving, honest and strong relationship and it blindsided me when it ended.
     I asked if he was the man I was suppose to be with. She said that “if the relationship does not come back together, there are three possible matches”.

     I am quite confused as to this. How was it not clear as to who I would be with or if I am suppose to be with him or not? She said he has not yet decided.

     May you please advise as I am quite confused.

     Thank you!

253. life is never clear and predictions are only possibilities – let go and see! There is no true certainty of the future anyway..

254. I went for a tarot Card reading about my marriage an the lady had a lot of right points (that my husband does love me an my children, he is very confused but said their was a black shadow that someone has caused and it’s their cause if problems and that she needs 1000 to make it gone and to medita over us. I don’t have 1000 dollars just laying around. Then she says she is in fear that are marriage will be ruined if not. That we have to get it out of our lives.

255. and you believed this person? Why? NO intuitive with integrity would EVER say that to you. Use common sense … this is a scam

256. Hello, I made the mistake of getting many readings since finding out about my ex cheating on me. A lot of the psychics told me I would be with him and one psychic told me that if I do he will keep cheating, but the rest said he wouldn’t. I love my ex so much and I know he loves me too because he still wants me back and apologizes everytime we get in contact which is not a lot of times that we keep in contact. They all say we will be together and get married and have children. But the confusion is one psychic who told me he will cheat many times.

257. Also I was wondering if you can give me a reading?

258. nope I don’t take personal clients and you do too many readings 😉 I call this oracle abuse and like a drug addict people give their power away to psychics.. stop getting readings and go with your heart and roll the dice

259. I know I gave them so much power and now I am so confused and even more depressed not knowing what to do.

260. stay away from readings for one year. Ask yourself why you would allow someone else to make you doubt? What’s the worst that can happen anyway? you break up again so what .. if you love this man jump in unless you feel he will cheat again.. frankly cheating can be an addiction. Read the book Sex Addicts anonymous and another one Back from Betrayal. It is so normal for you to be wary. Trust is hard to reconcile.

261. Hi Colette, so happy I stumbled across this post. It’s refreshing and reassuring to know that any kind of reading is an opportunity to empower ourselves, although it’s hard not to get caught up on unfavourable predictions. I had a question about timing, you refer to it as not being a ‘straight line’. In Italy a couple of years ago, an old man read my palm and told I would leave my husband (I’m guessing this could also mean partner or fiancé) when I was 38. Now, my italian wasn’t so great back then so I was never really sure if it was 28 or 38, I think we clarified 38. What’s interesting, is that I’ve recently left my long term boyfriend (to whom I was engaged to) and I’m 28, could it be possible this is what he was referring to? I know I could easily leave a relationship at 28 AND 38, but I hope it’s 28…!
     Thanks,
     Ally.

262. do not give over to your fear of impending doom. You create reality .. good psychics track the energy. You know your lines in your hand can change? 28 sounds good to me.

263. Thank you, Colette! I didn’t know that lines could change. Perhaps his reading made me more aware of my relationship and helped me to leave earlier than I would have otherwise.

     Happy Holidays!

264. yep!

265. Hi Colette,

     during a time of confusion in regards to a guy I’ve been seeing, I turned to pyschics for some clarity (probably not the best for an overthinker to do). Two used tarot and they did make me feel comfortable- not giving any hard outcomes- just that theres potential, patience is key, he cares for you hes just unsure, not sure hes ready for commitment etc and both were almost exact to eachother’s read.

     Recently, I felt my worries and fears about what his intentions are etc got a hold of me and I did an email read with someone different asking 3 questions. My fear increased as she told me there is very weak possibility for any love union between us, our time will be disjointed and even if a relationship manifests temporarily there will be problems and it will end. Then I got a phone read with her to ask more specific questions. she said “I’m sorry but your guides know best and want to protect you, I hate telling clients negative things and usually I can tell if things can change but for you its not looking good here. He’ll never love you. Some things are destiny and theres another man thats your destiny”.

     I have been so down on hearing this. Even though she said my guides told me I should shut it down now I can’t close the door on this guy, I see potential and want to see what happens. I just feel I wish I could erase all this from my head because I feel it will always be this dark cloud over my head feeling he’ll always have alterior motives and never be into me. I also feared he wasnt over his ex and she said theyll get back together for a period of time. She is apparently a VERY accurate medium/pyschic so i guess hearing what she said said makes me feel like it is truth. I don’t want this to effect any time I share with him- thinking the worst..that he’ll be going back with his ex anyways and feeling like i’ll never be enough as the psychic said.

266. what did you learn here? This person told you likely what you didn’t want to hear but that you were projecting – your dominant energy is fear. I do have to say though if you don’t trust your partner that’s never a good sign. Use your common sense. A good relationship will feel safe not so tumultuous.

267. I had a reading done yesterday, not in person but with a photo or two and received my reading then via email. To be honest I don’t think I’ve ever been so distraught as to what I received, my heart has been placed into a blender and turned into mulch. I was told to leave someone, essentially to drop them like a hot potato and never see them or message them again. After 2 and a half years of friendship with this person I feel as though I am abandoning them? I was advised that we do have what is called “free will” but the reader would prefer I heed her warning, she said she is not so dismissal “LOL” but she would prefer I heed her warning. For me this person has helped me with a lot, a lot of things in my life I never thought possible but I am hurt with this insight.

     As crazy as people think I am, I believe that this person is meant to be in my life. This is what I feel, I care for them much and I know they’ve got their own problems but I always try to remind myself that the reading is done NOW, meaning this can or should be the outcome as to how everything currently is. I believe we can change our thoughts and directions, I almost felt bullied with my reading, so to say. This was my first ever official reading as well, at the age of 32 and I feel as though my faith in this belief is wavering. I am probably over exaggerating but I am being honest, the fact that I was told it will never change or if I stay it will just take longer to dissolve basically and the end will always be the same. I do not believe this, do you think me crazy?

     I just want to thank you for this post, I feel a little lighter but I have told family and friends I will be away from social media and chat messages for a while as I need to get my head right again. I don’t think I have ever cried as much as I have since this reading, I care very much for this person, they had read my message I had sent everyone and as soon as they could, considering I understand their job entails their full attention, they called me to make sure that I am ok. That killed me inside, I hope I can get through this, I want to keep this friendship, this person is important to me and I thank you for your post, it has given me some form of hope.

     Thank you.

268. Yes you’re right, I projected fear. He hasen’t given me any reason to not trust him, absolutely no evidence. I think I just tend to think the worst about things unforunately. We aren’t in a serious relationship yet- it’s still fairly new, so hearing her say he’ll never love me or it’s not your destiny and such planted a big seed of doubt. How do I shift the negativity? She told me for certain it wont work, but I can’t just shut the door.

269. A psychic told me that I will meet a man either at the end of this year or next year sometime. I will be friends with him for 2 years then we will be a couple and eventually get married. The thing is I have been talking to my soulmate for the last few months and I had to cut off contact with him because I am not destined to be with him in this lifetime. This was 3 weeks ago. But it is not just that, I found out my soulmate has lied to me about a couple of things which was completely unnecessary because it was just to make himself look good. It makes me cranky that he never apologized to me but I still feel love towards him. I understand that by myself being distant to my soulmate he might actually learn not to lie to people in the future. I am not sure whether our soul contracts are completed for this lifetime or not but I miss him terribly. What I am saying is, is it really set in stone for me to be with this other man? Is it only by being with this other man that I am going to further my soul’s evolution?

270. Hello,
     I’m glad I ran into this website and I hope you can help me understand. So I had my first reading, on the suggestion of a friend, after being dumped.
     When I had my first reading all I wanted to know was if there was someone for me. I was told the guy who dumped me would come back. He’s a soul mate and they saw us settled together. He hasn’t come back and honestly, I don’t know, I don’t believe he ever will.

     More than half year later, I called a reader to confirm me about the guy, since I couldn’t call the former reader, and the new reader saw someone new and she told me the previous guy wouldn’t come back. I met the other guy on the time frame she saw (first reading with her was on March, I met the second guy on October). She saw me settled with this guy.

     However, there was something off with this guy as well. He lied to me and yesterday, I was given a total completely reading. After they (two readers) saw me settled down and stuff with him, now this has changed completely.

     What I felt and feel? Powerless and I don’t know myself lol. So he went from being good for me, to be completely not right.

     I don’t care about the guy, he lied to me and chose another woman. Who’d ever want someone like that? All I hope you can help me understand is why would predictions change so much?

     Many thanks!!!!

271. nothing is finite and you had a new type of experience that fit your unconscious expectations . instead of asking why the predictions changed asked what you need to do, what in you needs to change to manifest your deepest desires,

272. I get it. Yeah that’s what I’ve been wondering lately, is there a lesson to learn? That’s the only thing I can think of. Thanks for replying!! Amazing blog, really love your posts! Hugs

273. I just had a reading today. I was anxious the whole time. As soon as I walked into the room, I felt anxious and didn’t feel connected to her. I actually felt distance. Had my legs crossed the whole time as well as arms crossed. She said some things that seemed accurate but basically told me that my boyfriend that came with me isn’t my soulmate. She did our readings separate and said I’d meet my soulmate around 26/27 yrs old. My face immediately dropped. I actually didn’t go in for advice on love. I was close minded to it. I went in for career advice mostly. I’ve read that if you’re open minded you’re more likely to get a good reading. On the things I wanted to know, I got a good reading on. On love, it was bad. Should I disregard it all, just the part on love, or am I just in denial? It shook me up to the point that as soon as I got home from the reading, I hugged my boyfriend and started crying. I had to take two of my anxiety pills to calm me down.

274. what do you think? don’t give your power over to predictions. You are the one that sets reality in motion.. change course and certainly stay in the now and enjoy who you are with.

275. Minds are like swords, I do fear. The old ones go to rust.

276. Hi i am alishaand i have been having bad anxiety since i got a reading from one particular person on a app i use called purple saying me and my bf werent meant to be and I’ll find someone else he only seen us long term but it wouldn’t lead to marriage or kids i been with him a year now and that really hurt me and I don’t know what to think i do go overboard i got lot of readings about this topic mostly were good but this bad one really has been bothering me and i been starting stuff alot with my bf cause of it it’s making me so scared I don’t wanna end up hurt..the psychic said he would have another interest! & it’s making me believe it my boyfriend says he loves and cares for me and isn’t cheating but I’m very insecure because of my past and always think I’m getting played, i had bad past relationships that broke me and my trust! We do have ups and owns in this relationship we are young I’m 22 and he’s 21, i told him about the reading but I don’t know😩 I’m so scared to move forward but i wannabe with him but psychic said i would meet someone else end of next year I don’t want anybody else ugh! Others readers told me my bf wasn’t cheating though and the psyhic who said we wouldn’t last said he wasn’t cheating as well but it left me more confused as i contacted that advisor again saying i broke up with my boyfriend now he was giving me new time frames for this new guy he seen coming since i broke up with my bf which I didn’t really break up with my bf i wanted to see how accurate he was he says he was a empath and he should know I didn’t really break up with my bf and he was saying how he wished i didn’t and how i need to let the universe work and he never mentioned free will though it’s like he’s basically saying i have to be with my bf to get to who I’m meant to be with but I don’t know and then he said if we were meant to be we would still be together which confused me even more cause he thinks i broke up with my bf which I didn’t ! I tend to focus on negative alot..what should i do?😪💔

277. stop focusing on the negative, trust in the Divine, allow the relationship to unfold and stop getting psychic readings since its too hard for you to be neutral and because all readings are about potentials not 1000% accurate about the future. Enjoy your relationship, learn and grow and be in your life.

278. Hey you have the same story I had but me and my gf broke up and it’s over if u need a freind I can always listen to you bec I’ve been through all what u had

279. Hi! My name is Pauline, and for a while now I have been in an unhappy relationship. He’s a great guy, but we seem to be on very different maturaty levels, and I’ve just been miserable not being able to make this relationship work. I have been consulting a psychic about it and he is absolutely certain that I will not be able to leave him, and that whatever happens, I will always be with him. That there is simply no other man for me out there. This statement has made me completely loose my mind and i’ve been consulting way too much as a result because the idea that there is just nothing better for me simply unables me to act upon it. I am a very independant person and it is the first time that I feel this paralysed in making a decision. My gut feeling has been pretty clear from day one; This is not the relationship i want to be in. Yet the reading has made me doubt myself completely. Everytime I want to break up, the reading pops up and convinces me to stay. I end up thinking that I will regret this because the psychic has said so. I feel stuck and powerless. Thanks for your time 🙂 xx

280. you know this pisses me off so much. First off no one should EVER say that to you!! What happened to your self worth and free will? Yes you are in this but by telling you that this is it for you is unethical and disempowering. Any psychic or intuitive or whatever we call ourselves knows the universe responds by mirroring our emotions and consistency of thought and belief. I would spend your money on a good therapist. Also since you are emotionally experiencing PTSD from your oracle abuse – yes when you go to psychics over and over and over you give your power to them. What about a relationship to your Higher Power? Develop that first, get a good spiritual psychologist I’d even suggest downloading Nick Ortner’s Tapping Solution app. Emotional Freedom Technique is a life saver. and my last note to you, and I say this with love STOP GOING TO PSYCHICS at least for a year. hang in there…

281. Hi I’ve been going back and forth with my ex for a while we can’t ever seem to get on the same page. Before when I got readings I’ve been told he is my twin flame and when we are ready we will cross paths again which we always seem to do. Recently I had a reading where a new women told me I should have been married already and I am not on the path connected to the universe, timing is everything and now I might have lost my chance at marriage all together. She was very accurate up until that point which worries me. She said she can fix it but can’t guarantee anything it kind of seems like scam but I’m not sure? Can you help me please I haven’t been able to sleep over this 🙁

282. I am suspicious of anyone who claims to be able to fix or manipulate one’s life. My question to you is this. Can you surrender to what is exactly in front of you? Can you release your attachment to this outcome? Set yourself free, set the other person free. What is meant for you will never go past you. Yes we have a part to play in how we create reality but we can’t force anything to happen by will. I was told once by a psychic who was very accurate about a lot of things that I would never marry nor be with a faithful man. I have been 17 years with the most amazing man and I trust him implicitly. I say stop going to psychics and show up for your life. If you want to be married, focus on how that feels, how you want that to feel. The perfect person shows up to match our expectations. When we long and yearn and are tortured by desire for someone unavailable its an addiction not a relationship.

283. I got 2 readings both said I would get pregnant in November with a girl but I’ve been trying really hard to get pregnant before and it usually only takes me 2 months to get pregnant can both their predictions be wrong or if I do get pregnant in between now and November will they be miscarriages

284. Hi,
     A year or so ago I had an internet reading done about “Love” when I was single and this apparently repuatable psychic predicted that “I would have a relationship with a male but things wouldn’t work out and I’d end up with a female” and this reading really upset me and messed me up because I’m a straight female and not into girls at all. I go to a medium at least once a year. She’s very good and majority of the things she predicts are accurate or come true. She predicted this year that I would find love with a male and we would get married and have children. Could the first psychic have been wrong? Why did she predict this? Because I’m definitely not in denial of being gay.

285. I was hoping she would answer your question

286. I went for a reading and had only one question I wanted answered.
     Will my husband cheat on me?
     I had very high anxiety when I went to the reading because I felt I would get my answer and would be able to know if I was to stay married to the man I love or would I have to adapt to being seperated/divorced and have to start my life again.
     I wanted a firm yes or no but I didn’t get a clear answer. He told me that IF he did he would regret it and when I asked to confirm that he is going to cheat he said “ IF he does”
     I had just discussed with him that my husband was looking a lot online and once I found out was very remorseful and we went to counseling and he said he realised he could have lost everything but I still had it in the back of my mind that if there was a next time I would not be forgiving at all and would leave him.

     Is there anyway my anxiety and me giving him a back story made the reading not clear?
     Can my husband change his path and that was what he would have done but won’t because he knows the outcome or am I just clutching at straws that he won’t cheat on me?
     I don’t want to go back to the same psychic again or to another reading to just be further confused.

287. Colette,
     I met you in 2012 at a Celebrate Life event in Sedona,AZ and bought your cards, Hidden Realm. You read one card we each pulled. Your reading to me was this: “You have nothing left to prove. Stop trying to prove yourself.” That has always stuck with me. Over the years what you said to me has unfolded to even deeper levels of understanding and from different areas of my life.
     I have taken an oracle class with you prior to your current course series, I’m scheduled to see you in October, this year, in Texas and have attended your Oracle Palooza in 2017, and am on the waiting list to be taking your oracle cards course series.
     I use your WOTO cards the most because they seem to hold your energy and mine in collaboration with Spirit in sync more than others.
     My apologies, I’m rambling. Any way, I just wanted to say thank you. I’m so deeply grateful for your teachings and showing us how to communicate with Spirit through our cards.
     Blessings in the Light to you and much love. I look forward to seeing and learning from you in October.

288. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and share this with me, Cynthia! Are you on the waiting list for Oracle School? We’ll be enrolling very soon. I’d love to have you join. Also, I look forward to seeing you in October too! Big hugs!

289. I have asked this? to several so called people and they avoid it or they talk about my relationship. So here is my ? Will my Dr’s find the cancer

290. Collette,

     I had a reading done last week by a medium that I greatly respect, He told me to be careful at work, describing the location and exactly my place of work he told me I will break my ankle in 4 places and to please be careful in that specific area. My question to you is, can I change the outcome of this prediction if I pay more attention and am more aware of my surroundings? I really cannot afford to be out of work at the moment.
     Warm Regards,
     Joanne

291. I was told by one psychic who shall remain nameless, told me today that i would not reconnect with a guy i met this year. and then proceeded to ask me when was the last time we met and how did we meet. but i had two different ones tell me that we will reconnect, one gave me an exact month this year and one give me the time frame of one to three weeks on that month. so i leaving that for the universe to decide.

292. Hi colette. My husband Gav has an illness that is incurable theres no treatments. I went and seen a pschyic. I asked the question how long he has He got before he dies. She told me more than a month less than 3 months . That was May 20th of this year 2019 to August 2019 was the three month mark as you no we are now in october and my husband is still with us. Its such a massive question to ask i know but if she didnt know the answer to my question she should of said so. I loved going to see a pschyics . Your abilities amaze me. But she has put a massive damper on what i think about the abilities of one. Thanku 💕

293. k

294. Hey Trisha, Im curious, did your ex come back at the end 🙂

295. I did have a reading from a psychic and she said I was going to meet somebody in 2 years through friends and then she said my health was good and then when I got a hold of her the next time the guy change she said we’re going to meet somebody in 3 years and that I better be careful with my eyes I’m having my circulation is not the best so which is totally changed I don’t understand how can I totally just changed

296. I recently broke up with the father of my child, I know in my heart I still love him but we blocked each other, we are not talking. I have been consulting several psychics, got too many readings most of them gave more or less same answers. They say he will reach out soon in 2 months and we will have a future together he is also in love with me missing me. I get excited everytime I get a reading because it gives me the hope that we will be together and nothing negative so far. One even said he will propose and give me flowers and a ring. Such specifics! I just feel like the waiting is taking forever and I wish it was all true. But I feel I am getting addicted to these readings because I want to hear good news, I actually do not know how to stop chatting.

297. Hi there, I think I’ve abused my readings, to be honest I’ve had eleven in the last four months. 8 predict one way and 3 predict another, the 8 that gave me similar lines is the one outcome I want but I have fear that the other 3 will come true. I know we are in charge of our own destiny, I suppose my question is, is this all of lives littles paths for me and I pick and follow the one that is true to me?

298. I found this website because from time
     to time I search for a lovely Oriental woman who was observing me while I was outside smoking a cigarette at a wedding in Colorado in 1994. She was also a guest at the wedding and was outside about 25 feet away from me and I just noticed she seemed to be staring at me rather intently. It did not bother me, but it was obvious.
     She then walked over to me, said hello, then asked if she could see my palm. She stated that she had never asked anyone this question, and that it was always others asking her to read their palms. I had never sought out a psychic and had never had an encounter with one prior.
     I was 24 years old at the time and accompanying the event with my then boyfriend. I really didn’t know any of the guests that day or the couple being wed.
     Anyways, what followed when this woman took my hand was amazing. She proceeded to tell me all about myself. She was spot on with her assessment of me. From there she absolutely had my full attention. She then told me the things she saw for me in my future. She said I would travel the world, she said I would marry and have a happy, loving marriage with a wonderful man.She said that I might have a brief marriage and realize quickly that it was a mistake, but she saw me in a loving and happy lifelong marriage. She said I would do something important that would be big. And then she spoke the words that I believe was the message she needed to give to me and the reason why she felt she had to speak to me. She told me that I was going to go through a very difficult time and that I might think that I’m not going to survive it. But she stressed that I would, and that I was going to be ok.
     She really stressed this and it was the words that she left me with.
     It was a very powerful exchange and after the days events were over for many days and nights I replayed her words over and over in my mind. My then boyfriend at the time was interested in marriage and I repeatedly pondered is he the long happy lifelong partner or is he the mistake? I ended the relationship with him 6 months later.
     Four years after this exchange with this woman ( I so wish I knew her name), I was diagnosed with cervical cancer. I was in a serious relationship with a wonderful man who was amazingly supportive and by my side through all of it. The next 2 years brought an onslaught of surgeries and treatments. I had chemotherapy, radiation, A hysterectomy, a bowel resection etc.
     The first procedure I had was a radical hysterectomy to remove the rather large cancerous mass on my cervix. It was then, after I awoke from the procedure in my hospital bed that I had the biggest aha moment. It hit me like a Mac truck. This is what she meant! I’m going to be okay! I’m not going to die! I can’t express what a gift this remarkable woman gave to me. Her words came rushing back to me and gave me the strength and the certainty that I would be okay. It was a tremendous revelation and relief to know this. And I knew with certainty this was the sole reason that woman approached me that day, to bring me comfort and peace at a time where I wondered and agonized over the question if I would soon die. Her words were such an amazing gift. I have always wanted to thank her, if only I could somehow find her.
     And she was quite correct about so many things. I married that wonderful man 20 years ago, we have lived in and travelled to many countries. I still haven’t done anything important or big that I’m aware of… I have no idea what this big thing could be, but I believe that is yet to come.
     I have never met anyone that had this incredible ability before, nor have I ever sought out palm readers or psychics., aside from a few “palm readers” here and there on a board walk type setting with girlfriends. None of whom I believe had any special abilities. But the woman who approached me that day, that woman I’m so thankful for. She was incredible and had a rare and precious gift that she used to help others.

299. stop getting readings.

300. if you feel you are getting addicted to anything it means that is no longer good for you to engage in it. Stop getting readings, release this attachment and seek counselling. Get back with your Higher Power. Focus on other things. Its like some people can have a drink and wine is not a problem, for others it wrecks them.

301. Hello, I have a question that i wanna asked you if you dont mind me asking, I have advance in the Wiccn magic, iam now using tarot cards, i have done 2 reading and have gotten several differnt positive cards, but idk how to act on it, if possible could you give me some word of advice.

302. I really needed to read this thank you x