One of my all time favorite practices for self-discovery and personal transformation is journaling.
From the release of emotions, to getting clear about what we want and don’t want, to getting more connected to our inner knowing – the benefits of journaling are virtually endless!
I’ve had a consistent journaling practice for over 36 years, and I love sharing the power of this simple practice with others. However, people sometimes tell me that they struggle with how to journal because they believe it captures the negative things that happen in their lives.
I had one woman even tell me she stopped journaling after 20 years because one day she looked at the large box of used journals in her closet and saw it as a “treasure chest of gloom and doom” – her words not mine!
I can certainly understand that perspective, but only if you limit your journaling to releasing and not learning from your experiences.
Journaling can serve as a good way to get those negative thoughts and feelings up and out, but it also offers us a valuable opportunity to learn from our experiences and choose NEW thoughts, beliefs, and feelings.
I share more about why I love journaling and some of my best practical advice for a fulfilling journaling practice in this episode from my podcast, INSIDE THE WOONIVERSE.
How to start a journaling practice
If you’re just dipping your toes into journaling and you’re wondering how to destress with a journaling practice or how to get started in the first place, it doesn’t have to be complicated!
Journaling is a great way to access your creativity, connect with your inner self, and find valuable insight from your past experiences.
I created a free guide to help anyone who wants to experience the benefits of a journaling practice. You can get the free How to Start Journaling Guide here.
When it comes to journaling, the more consistent you are, the greater the results you’ll see. Why not commit to daily journaling for a couple of weeks and notice what changes you see in your life?
Daily journaling for a calm mind
One of the greatest benefits of a journaling practice is the fact that it’s one of the most relaxing things to do. Journaling can help you achieve a calm mind and find a sense of peace and groundedness. It’s also a great way to release anything that isn’t serving you anymore.
As you sort through your emotions and write out your struggles, you generate a lot of trash – those thoughts and feelings that don’t serve your well-being but, instead, keep alive your negative beliefs and painful emotions from the past.
It’s human nature to want to get out all of our anger, sadness, and fear and speak your truth, however ugly it may be.
It’s also important to let go of the harsh feelings and judgments and focus on what you have learned and how you’ve grown. You can set up a regular practice of reviewing your journal weekly or monthly to help with this process.
Dumping Grounds Journaling Exercise:
1. As you reread what you wrote when you had negative thoughts and emotions, think about how much weight you gave them in the moment and how much they have right now. Does it seem like a lot of drama about something minor? Did you invest emotional energy in a situation or a thought or emotion that you now see really wasn’t important?
2. During this process, use a colored highlighter to mark any passages that are gems: insights that have value and can serve you in the future. You might cut these out or rewrite them in another journal you will keep and look back on.
3. Now, as you look at the passages you want to release, say aloud, I release these thoughts and feelings with love and compassion for myself and everyone. Imagine they are being taken to a garbage dump to fertilize something better. You can even rip up those parts of your journal entries or burn them. Take a moment to feel a sense of relief at having dumped the garbage.
4. Next, go back to the passages you highlighted and create a “solutions and insights” journal where you reflect on the lessons you’ve discovered. When you write about your insights and the treasure you’ve found, you’ll be better able to track your real growth and progress, and less likely to sabotage yourself.
If you struggle with feeling stuck while journaling and you don’t know what to write about in your insights and solutions journal, listen to this clip from my podcast, INSIDE THE WOONIVERSE about how I approach feeling stuck in my journaling practice.
How to get rid of stress with journaling
The practice of “taking out the garbage” through journaling can certainly help reduce stress and bring more calm into your life.
Another favorite practice for calming the mind and feeling more grounded and happier is a gratitude journal!
The great thing about this type of journaling is that it’s simple and effective. You don’t need gratitude journal prompts, all you need is to do a little reflecting on the aspects of your life that you feel grateful for.
Practicing gratitude can help increase happiness and life satisfaction, and journaling is a great way to bring consistent feelings of gratitude into your life.
When you write down the things you’re grateful for, be sure to take a moment to really feel the gratitude in your heart. Reflect on how many things in your life you once prayed and wished for, and thank Spirit for your beautiful life.
Journaling with Oracle Cards
One of my all time favorite tools for deepening my journaling practice and using it to feel more connected with my inner guidance system is Oracle Cards.
When you combine Oracle Cards and journaling, the potential for personal transformation is incredible.
In just a few weeks, I’ll be releasing, The Oracle Card Journal: A Daily Practice for Igniting Your Insight, Intuition, and Magic.
This illustrated journal will take you through a 40 day process to connect with the Universe and your own inner wisdom through a daily practice of pulling Oracle Cards and journaling.
If you’ve been looking for a way to feel more connected to your intuition and the Universe, and to experience less stress and more calm, click here to pre-order your journal today.
Do you keep a journal? Share with me!
Share in the comments your current journaling practice, or what blocks you’ve encountered with journaling. I love reading your comments!
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Hi Colette, I’ve journeled for close to 40 years. It has always been a way for me to release negative thoughts and express myself. I’ve kept almost all of my journals and it’s interesting to see a very common theme, not always positive, but recently I started a gratitude journal and it is a very powerful tool that I’m enjoying. I’ve learned a lot and have had some great insights over the years from journaling and I really appreciate your suggestion of going through and highlighting the nuggets and then rewriting those into another journal. I think that way I could let go of the journals that no longer serve me. I also really like the idea of using the oracle cards to journal with and look forward to watching your video and ordering the journal that you have recently put together. Thank you so much, I love your joyful energy.
thank you for sharing this with me, Lynda! love that you’re letting go of the journals that no longer serves you!
I do journal daily I started about a year ago just for my daily journal when I retired it has help to put me
thought down and to think and also some times I would do a dump the thoughts I do have two journals
one on spiritual for what comes up and the second one just forty daily thoughts and this is still new to me. I am new to a spiritual practice because I started to awaken about 2 years ago
I’m so happy that you’ve found journaling, Mike! thank you so much for sharing this with me! 💖
I journal daily. I have done it off and on through the years, but my recent try has lasted longer than any previous attempts. I started again because of you Colette! I started looking at it as a gratitude journal and that opened up the writing process for me. I also doodle. It find it very relaxing.
awe! I’m so happy that you’re slowly getting back into journaling again, Vickey! woohoo!
Hi I do journal but not on a regular basis I start of doing it every day then some how I loose momentum.
I use it as a dumping ground , for gratitude and reflection. I found I used it more when I did the free get into your flow. Course and found it quite enlightening especially when recording how the oracle cards I had pulled resonated with both my inner & outer world.
I love that you loved that experience, Rachel! thank you for coming! 💖
I began writing in a diary when I was 8 then over the years journaled about life marriage children friends and family. Now I have started to journal using your oracle cards and find it useful and opens up my imagination I am 70 yrs old and I think the combination oh oracle cards has been so helpful and I like the idea of a gratitude journal. Thanks Colette for all the inspiration and sharing your wisdom
love this story! thank you for sharing, Jacki!
I saw a therapist for depression. She had me journal my thoughts daily. All it did was bring all the loss & despair to the forefront of my mind, reliving it all the time. I stopped seeing her.
After watching your podcast I started a gratitude journal. It has been so helpful. It’s changing my perceptions and I look forward to Journaling everyday. Thank you 🙏💜
so happy that you’ve found it helpful, Debra! sending you so much love!
I have always had difficulties journaling as I juge my writing way too much. I’ve started again by just noting bullet points of my day and pulling an Oracle card and noting what the card tells me and how it makes me feel and tells. I call it one step at à time and I feel gratitude afterwsrds. Thanks for reminding me of the feeling. Much gratitude!! 🥰🙏🙏
love that! yes! one step at a time!
Journaling has been a part of my life for many years…since 1994? But…I only do it when I’m alone in the house, yard, at work…anytime I get some ME time. I cannot for the life of me write when there is anyone else around…it’s like my mind is fuzzy like bad reception from an antenna…and I cannot think or process. It drives me a little crazy because I don’t get ME time often enough and so far I haven’t figured out a way to get that consistently. Journaling has been an absolute life saver however and I will continue when I can. 😊
hope you find more time for yourself, Heather. sending you so much love!
Hi there, I am new to Journaling and oracle cards and I recently bought your Mystical Dhaman Oracle cards and guide book set. How do I turn over the cards?
Thanks in advance.
Natalie
hi, Natalie! you can watch this video I made about shuffling cards! click here