Dearest sparkle being, It occurred to me last week that I have somewhat fulfilled a dream of my parents- that I live in a place where I’m protected by privilege, although our definitions are not at all the same. For my parents, it’s why they came here after WW2- to build a life that would…
The heat wave here has my brain on “slo-mo” and so while scrambling for something profound to talk about this weekend I just collapsed into that kind of numb silly stupor that led to a seriously prolonged state of procrastination. You know the feeling. Just like Scarlett O’Hara on the plantation waving a fan saying;…
Dearest you, Now that I’m finally landing in my skin at my new digs in the countryside I’m contemplating how far a little effort goes in scooping up a miracle or two from the universe. Here’s what I mean by this. I have a tendency to be an isolator. Yes chatty gregarious moi likes to…
The Hot Mess of Beautiful Green Acres Dearest you, I’m writing this in my pajamas sitting in the only room in my new house in the country that is almost unpacked, with both doggies lying beside me exhausted from the past two days of moving and construction shock (that will apparently continue for the next…
Dearest sparkle being! This note will be short as I’m writing this in my demolished office amongst boxes and garbage bags and all kinds of moving paraphernalia that freaks me out every time I look at them. Moving house is always so stressful for me. I am a Cancer and like my home to be…
Dearest sparkly wonderful you, Before I begin this week’s conversation I thought I’d say what a great tribe we have here! Notice how respectful and insightful everyone’s comments are when you post? I am so proud and happy that so many of you are coming forward to share your experience, strength and hope with all…
Are you stuck in the Ghostlands of love? With Valentine’s Day in the air, many of us find ourselves wandering through the Ghostlands of love. Perhaps you’ve been ruminating about your past relationships or looking back through the lens of romanticism and nostalgia. Or maybe you’ve gotten wrapped up in longing for and planning out…
We each think as many as 50,000 thoughts each day. What are your thoughts like? Sadly, many of us unintentionally bring ourselves down with disapproving thoughts—for example, “I don’t have what it takes”… “No one loves me”… “I can’t believe I said the wrong thing and made such a fool of myself.” This type of…
I once longed to be a recording artist. Growing up, I’d picture myself traveling the world to perform for cheering fan. I’d imagine hearing my music on the radio and having people stop me for autographs. I’d even picture what I’d be wearing on the cover of Rolling Stone Magazine! Okay, you may be giggling…
Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt silly or afraid to ask for help? And, how about if you’ve ever felt overwhelmed with all the stuff you need to do? I’m willing to bet that all of our hands just shot up, myself included! As I sat down to write today’s blog, I decided to…
